Part I
THE P.O.W.E.R. PYRAMID
CHAPTER 1
PURPOSE
Champions are made from something they have deep inside themâa desire, a dream, a vision.
âMuhammad Ali, one of the most significant sports figures of the twentieth century
On April 6, 2007, businesswoman Arianna Huffington collapsed from exhaustion and lack of sleep. When she fell, she hit her head on the corner of her desk, spilling blood on the floor of her home Âoffice. She also broke her cheekbone and cut her eye. At the time, she was working over one hundred hours a week: this painful incident served as a major wake-up call for her.1
In Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder, Huffington writes, âIn terms of the traditional measures of success, which focus on money and power, I was very successful. But I was not living a successful life by any sane definition of success. I knew something had to radically change. I could not go on that way.â2 This event Âpropelled her to overhaul her life and to start using her influence to dismantle the widespread delusion that burnout is a price that you must pay to be successful. In addition to authoring Thrive, she wrote The Sleep Revolution: Transforming Your Life, One Night at a Time. She also launched Thrive Global in late 2016 with the Âmission âto end the stress and burnout epidemic.â3
When people want to make changes, they usually begin by thinking about what to start doing or stop doing. Obviously, you need to change your behavior if you want to change your life. ÂHowever, you have to change your beliefs first because your beliefs drive your behavior. Your mindset will ultimately serve as the key driver or as the key obstacle for whatever you want to achieve. In the example above, Arianna Huffington needed to change her definition of success before she could start living a healthier life.
Forming stronger habits can be simple and straightforward, as you will see in the chapters to follow. However, that does not mean the process will be easy. When change is toughâand it will be toughâyou will consciously or subconsciously ask yourself, âWhy am I doing this?ââŚâWhy am I not eating a piece of cake when Âeveryone else around me is?â⌠âWhy am I exercising today instead of taking it easy at home?ââŚâWhy am I focusing on this difficult project when I could procrastinate and work on an easier task?ââŚâWhy am I going to bed early instead of Âwatching TV?â
Where there is a will why, there is a way. The first level of The P.O.W.E.R. Pyramid is purpose. In this chapter, you will learn four beliefs that can drive your purpose and inspire you to make positive changes in your life.
Work Stronger Wisdom
âI firmly believe that the healthier you are, the more engaged you will be at work, and the more energy you will bring to every aspect of your life, not just to your career, but also to your family, your friends, and your community.â
âChip Bergh, president and chief executive officer at Levi Strauss & Co., one of the worldâs largest brand-name apparel companies
BELIEF #1: STRONGER HABITS HELP YOU REDUCE AND PREVENT PAIN
Michael Blaue is a father who lives in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. One day, one of his kids told him that he wanted to be like him when he grew up. He did not mention an occupation, however. Instead, his son said, âWhen I grow up, Iâm going to be big and fat like you.â4
This life-changing comment inspired Blaue to make some significant changes. The results were incredibleâand definitely not typical. Over a ninety-day period, he lost over 18 percent of his body fat and shed over sixty pounds (going from 241 lbs. to 179 lbs.). He was also recognized as National Champion of the Goldsâ Gym Challenge, a twelve-week body transformation contest.5
If you didnât know the real story behind his makeover, you might think he just relied on willpower. However, his motivation was so much stronger. He believed that losing weight would make him a better dad. You can be certain this view helped him stay motivated on days when he was busy, tired, or not in the mood to work out or eat healthy. Now, his sons flex and do push-ups when they imitate him.6
A painful comment and experience is also what initially motivated me to change my body as a teenager. After my sophomore year in high school, I attended a summer basketball camp with my teammates. At the time, I was 5'10" and 119 pounds. During a break one afternoon at camp, my teammates and I were hanging out in the sun, and we were shirtless because of the heat. One of my teammates looked at me and started to laugh. âLook at Leibman,â he said. âHeâs so puny you can see his heart beating.â The entire team started cracking up. I looked down at my chest and noticed they were actually right! I tried to laugh it off though. âI donât know what you guys are talking about,â I said.
It was an extremely embarrassing moment that unleashed my motivation to get stronger. I had no idea how to get started, but an older, much stronger friend named John took me under his wing. Over the next year, my body transformed. By the time I went to college, I was 6'1" and 180 pounds with less than 10 percent body fatâa significant improvement from my previously frail physique.
My reasons for forming stronger habits have certainly evolved throughout my life, but the pain of my teammateâs comment was the first thing that drove me. Like Arianna Huffington and Michael Blaue, I was galvanized by what I refer to as a Mighty Moment, a transformational turning point that compels you to make changes. These painful experiences are the ultimate motivators.
Mighty Moments inspire many people to form stronger habits. However, you donât need to have an epiphany in order to change your behavior. If you want to reduce or prevent pain in your life, you can simply decideâat any timeâto form stronger habits. To put it bluntly, you will experience more pain in your life without stronger habits.
One study led by Dr. Earl S. Ford of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta found that a healthier lifestyle can reduce your chances of developing chronic diseases and conditions by up to 80 percent.7 In other words, the large majority of the ailments that people experience are self-induced and preventable.
Studies have also measured the impact that specific habits can have in reducing or preventing pain associated with specific ailments. In one such study, researchers at Duke University found that exercise can be at least as effective as anti-depressant medication in treating depression.8 Neuroscientists at the University of Georgia have also demonstrated that exercise increases galanin, a neuropeptide that contributes to stress resilience.9
Many people interviewed for this book highlighted stress as a key reason why they exercise and make their health and well-being a priority. One example is Barbara Tulipane, chief executive officer at National Recreation and Park Association (NRPA), the leading non-profit organization dedicated to the advancement of public parks, recreation, and conservation. âBeing a CEO is a very stressful job,â Barbara told me.
âYou have a choice on how you can manage that stress,â she says. âI see a lot of leaders who resort to alcohol. In my case, I choose to be active physically. I guess running is my âdrug of choice.â Being physically fit is a secondary benefit. To me, itâs all about alleviating stress and taking care of my mental health.â
BELIEF #2: STRONGER HABITS HELP YOU FEEL BETTER AND PERFORM BETTER
Countless studies have demonstrated that stronger habits in four areas (nutrition, exercise, focus, and renewal) lead to more energy and higher performance, both in the short term and the long term. Improving your behavior in these key areas will provide a multitude of benefits for your body and your brain.
Stronger eating habits (to be covered in chapter 6) improve your health, your mood, and your ability to focus. For example, a study led by Dr. Jeremy Spencer of Reading University found that something as simple as eating a large helping of blueberries (a food rich in antioxidants) could lead to increased concentration and memory up to five hours later.10
Stronger exercise habits (to be covered in chapter 7) make you more resilient, and MRI scans have shown that physical activity can even increase overall brain volume.11 For example, a study performed at the University of British Columbia found that aerobic exercise can increase the size of your hippocampus, a part of the brain that is connected to learning and memory.12
Stronger work habits (to be covered in chapter 8) help you complete higher-quality work in less time. Research has also shown that greater focus can increase your creativity and your engagement at work. The Energy Project, a boutique consulting firm, partnered with Harvard Business Review in 2013 and 2014. They surveyed people globally across twenty-five industries. They found that engagement at work increased by 29 percent among those with the greatest level of focus.13
Stronger renewal habits (to be covered in chapter 9) make you calmer, improve your memory, and increase your attention span. For example, one study published in the Journal of Neuroscience looked at brain scans of regular meditators versus non-meditators. Researchers found that the meditators had greater stability in their ventral posteromedial cortex, a part of the brain associated with wandering thoughts.14
There is a great deal of overlap between your eating habits, exercise habits, work habits, and renewal habits. Weaker habits in any or all of these areas can send you into a downward spiral and make you feel like you are drowning. When you are not physically active, well-rested, and well-fueled, you will have less natural energy, and you will find it more difficult to focus. Many people try to compensate by fueling themselves artificially with sugary products, energy drinks, and lots of caffeine. These band-aids donât fix the problem though. They just make you more irritable and more anxious. They also make it harder to get quality sleep, and they can lead to significant health problems when consumed in excess....