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50 Self-Help Classics
50 Inspirational Books to Transform Your Life from Timeless Sages to Contemporary Gurus
Tom Butler Butler Bowdon
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50 Inspirational Books to Transform Your Life from Timeless Sages to Contemporary Gurus
Tom Butler Butler Bowdon
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Thousands of books have been written offering the 'secrets' to personal fulfillment and happiness: how to walk The Road Less Traveled, Win Friends and Influence People, or Awaken the Giant Within. But which are the all-time classics? Which ones really can change your life?Bringing you the essential ideas, insights and techniques from 50 legendary works from Lao-Tzu to Benjamin Franklin to Paulo Coelho, 50 Self-Help Classics is a unique guide to the great works of life transformation.
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Self ImprovementAs a Man Thinketh
1902
âOf all the beautiful truths pertaining to the soul that have been restored and brought to light in this age, none is more gladdening or fruitful of divine promise and confidence than thisâthat you are the master of your thought, the molder of your character, and the maker and shaper of your condition, environment and destiny.â
âGood thoughts and actions can never produce bad results; bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results ⌠We understand this law in the natural world, and work with it; but few understand it in the mental and moral worldâalthough its operation there is just as simple and undeviatingâand they, therefore, do not cooperate with it.â
âLaw, not confusion, is the dominating principle in the universe; justice, not injustice, is the soul and substance of life; and righteousness, not corruption, is the molding and moving force in the spiritual government of the world. This being so, we have to but right ourselves to find that the universe is right.â
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In a nutshell
We donât attract what we want, but what we are. Only by changing your thoughts will you change your life.
In a similar vein
Joseph Murphy, The Power of Your Subconscious Mind (p248)
Florence Scovell Shinn, The Game of Life and How to Play It (p272)
CHAPTER 1
James Allen
With its theme that âmind is the master weaver,â creating our inner character and outer circumstances, As a Man Thinketh is an in-depth exploration of the central idea of self-help writing. James Allenâs contribution was to take an assumption we all shareâthat because we are not robots we therefore control our thoughtsâand reveal its fallacy. Because most of us believe that mind is separate from matter, we think that thoughts can be hidden and made powerless; this allows us to think one way and act another. However, Allen believed that the unconscious mind generates as much action as the conscious mind, and while we may be able to sustain the illusion of control through the conscious mind alone, in reality we are continually faced with a question: âWhy cannot I make myself do this or achieve that?â
In noting that desire and will are sabotaged by the presence of thoughts that do not accord with desire, Allen was led to the startling conclusion: âWe do not attract what we want, but what we are.â Achievement happens because you as a person embody the external achievement; you donât âgetâ success but become it. There is no gap between mind and matter.
We are the sum of our thoughts
The logic of the book is unassailable: Noble thoughts make a noble person, negative thoughts hammer out a miserable one. To a person mired in negativity, the world looks as if it is made of confusion and fear. On the other hand, Allen noted, when we curtail our negative and destructive thoughts, âAll the world softens towards us, and is ready to help us.â
We attract not only what we love, but also what we fear. His explanation for why this happens is simple: Those thoughts that receive our attention, good or bad, go into the unconscious to become the fuel for later events in the real world. As Emerson commented, âA person is what he thinks about all day long.â
Our circumstances are us
Part of the fame of Allenâs book is its contention that âCircumstances do not make a person, they reveal him.â This seems an exceedingly heartless comment, a justification for neglect of those in need, and a rationalization of exploitation and abuse, of the superiority of those at the top of the pile and the inferiority of those at the bottom.
This, however, would be a knee-jerk reaction to a subtle argument. Each set of circumstances, however bad, offers a unique opportunity for growth. If circumstances always determined the life and prospects of people, then humanity would never have progressed. In fact, circumstances seem to be designed to bring out the best in us, and if we make the decision that we have been âwrongedâ then we are unlikely to begin a conscious effort to escape from our situation. Nevertheless, as any biographer knows, a personâs early life and its conditions are often the greatest gift to an individual.
The sobering aspect of Allenâs book is that we have no one else to blame for our present condition except ourselves. The upside is the possibilities contained in knowing that everything is up to us; where before we were experts in the array and fearsomeness of limitations, now we become connoisseurs of what is possible.
Change your world by changing your mind
While Allen did not deny that poverty can happen to a person or a people, what he tried to make clear is that defensive actions such as blaming the perpetrator will only run the wheels further into the rut. What measures us, what reveals us, is how we use those circumstances as an aid or spur to progress. A successful person or community, in short, is one who is most efficient at processing failure.
Allen observed, âMost of us are anxious to improve our circumstances, but are unwilling to improve ourselvesâand we therefore remain bound.â Prosperity and happiness cannot happen when the old self is still stuck in its old ways. People are nearly always the unconscious cause of their own lack of prosperity.
Tranquillity = success
The influence of Buddhism on Allenâs thought is obvious in his emphasis on âright thinking,â but it is also apparent in his suggestion that the best path to success is calmness of mind. People who are calm, relaxed, and purposeful appear as if that is their natural state, but nearly always it is the fruit of self-control.
These people have advanced knowledge of how thought works, coming from years of literally âthinking about thought.â According to Allen, they have a magnet-like attraction because they are not swept up by every little wind of happenstance. We turn to them because they are masters of themselves. âTempest-tossedâ souls battle to gain success, but success avoids the unstable.
Final comments
Some 100 years after its first publication, As a Man Thinketh continues to get rave reviews from readers. The plain prose and absence of hype are appealing within a genre that contains sensational claims and personalities, and the fact that we know so little about the author makes the work somehow more intriguing.
To bring its message to a wider audience, two updated versions of the work that correct the gender specificity of the original have been published: As You Think, edited by Marc Allen (no relation), and As a Woman Thinketh, edited by Dorothy Hulst.
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James Allen
Allen was born in Leicester, England, in 1864. At 15 he was forced to leave school and go out to work; his father, who had left for the United States following the failure of the family business, had been robbed and murdered. Allen was employed with several British manufacturing firms until 1902, when he began to write full time. Moving to Ilfracombe on the south-west coast of England, he settled down to a quiet life of reading, writing, gardening, and meditation.
As a Man Thinketh was the second of 19 books that Allen wrote in a decade. Although considered his best work, it was only published at his wifeâs urging. Other books include From Poverty to Power, Byways of Blessedness, The Life Triumphant and Eight Pillars of Prosperity. Allen died in 1912.
Meditations
2nd century
âBegin each day by telling yourself: Today I shall be meeting with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will and selfishnessâall of them due to the offendersâ ignorance of what is good or evil. But for my part I have long perceived the nature of good and its nobility, the nature of evil and its meanness, and also the nature of the culprit himself, who is my brother (not in the physical sense, but as a fellow-creature similarly endowed with reason and a share of the divine); therefore none of those things can injure me, for nobody can implicate me in what is degrading.â
âLove nothing but that which comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny. For what could more aptly fit your needs?â
âEverythingâa horse, a vineâis created for some duty. This is nothing to wonder at: even the sun-god himself will tell you, âThis is a work I am here to do,â and so will all the other sky-dwellers. For what task, then, were you yourself created? For pleasure? Can such a thought be tolerated?â
In a nutshell
Donât get caught up in trivia or pettiness; appreciate your life within a larger context.
In a similar vein
Boethius, The Consolation of Philosophy (p34)
Richard Carlson, Donât Sweat the Small Stuff (p78)
CHAPTER 2
Marcus Aurelius
Marcus Aurelius Antoninus was emperor of Rome from 161AD until his death 19 years later. By the time he came to power, Rome was under threat: constant warring with âbarbariansâ on the frontier, disease brought back by soldiers, pestilence, and even earthquakes. Try to imagine the President of the United States being so philosophical in the midst of such crises. Yet despite the circumstances, after his death Marcus Aurelius would come to be idealized by the Romans as the perfect emperor, a genuine philosopher-king who provided the last real nobility of rule before the savagery of his son Commodusâ reign and the anarchy of the third century.
A student of Stoic philosophy, Marcus Aurelius refused to be made miserable by the difficulties of life. Stoicism was a Greek school of thought originating around 300BC. In simple terms, it taught that submission to the law of the universe was how human beings should live, and emphasized duty, avoidance of pleasure, reason, and fearlessness of death. Stoics would also have full responsibility for their actions, independence of mind, and pursue the greater good over their own. The emperor would have been comfortable with todayâs United Nations and other world bodies that stand for cooperative effort: Stoics had an international outlook and believed in universal brotherhood.
As well as the world, the thoughts of the Stoics spanned time, as this excerpt from the Meditations demonstrates:
âAll things fade into the storied past, and in a little while are shrouded in oblivion. Even to men whose lives were a blaze of glory this comes to pass; as to the rest, the breath is hardly out of them before, in Homerâs words, they are âlost to sight alike and hearsayâ. What, after all, is immortal fame? An empty, hollow thing. To what, then, must we aspire? This, and this alone: the just thought, the unselfish act, the tongue that utters no falsehood, the temper that greets each passing event as something predestined, expected, and emanating from the One source and origin.â
This was written over 19 centuries ago, yet it is somehow even more relevant when we know how ancient it is. Marcus Aureliusâ life itself bears the statement out; not many now will have cause to remember his skill or otherwise as a leader, but his Meditations, quiet thoughts written by firelight in the midst of campaigns, live on in hearts and minds.
The Meditations are alive with perceptiveness about the basic unity of all things in the universe, including its people. They tell us that the effort to see through anotherâs eyes is nothing less than an expansion of oneâs worldâand a unifying of it. To despise, avoid, or judge a person is simply an obstruction of Natureâs law. The realization that to move human relations to a higher level we must do the opposite of these things formed the basis of the emperorâs thought.
On every page of the Meditations is this theme of accepting things and people how they are, not how we would like them to be. There is sadness in this view, as the following brief comment suggests: âYou may break your heart, but men still go ...