Chapter 1
âThe Cat That Walks by Himselfâ
Sacrifice, Duty, and Love in Downton Abbey
Mark D. White
One of the most captivating things about Downton Abbey is its variety of romantic relationships, and the two that capture our imaginations the most seem to be the relationships between Matthew and Lady Mary upstairs and between Mr. Bates and Anna downstairs. (Iâd add the Dowager Countessâs undying love for herself, but that would take an entire chapter to itself!) We know from the first episode that Matthew and Mary are destined to end up together, especially after they are repulsed by each other on their first meeting. The attraction between Bates and Anna, however, smolders over the first few episodes before they announce their feelings for each other halfway through the first season.
One of the reasons weâre drawn to these two romances in particular is the noble self-sacrifice displayed by both Matthew and Bates.1 Each man tries to shield his beloved from having to carry the burden of injury (in Matthewâs case) or a sordid past (in Batesâs case). In this chapter weâll use the duty-based ethical system of Immanuel Kant (1724â1804) to explore Matthewâs and Batesâs behavior toward Mary and Anna, respectively, especially in terms of how they put the womenâs happiness above their ownâreminding us how wonderful a great love story can be.
Wait a MinuteâKant? Really?
It may come as a shock that I would use the moral philosophy of Immanuel Kant to look at romantic relationships, given Kantâs reputation for being rigidly logical. Kant is best known for the categorical imperative, his formalization of the âmoral law,â which people are supposed to apply to their plans of action (or maxims) to determine if they correspond to duty or violate it. For instance, the universalization formula of the categorical imperative commands us to âact only according to that maxim whereby you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law.â2
Based on this formula, lying is contrary to duty because if everyone lied, no one would believe anything anybody said, which would defeat the purpose of lying. Another formula of the categorical imperative tells us to âact in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a means,â which also forbids lying because it uses the person lied to as a means to the liarâs own ends.3
In addition to forbidding certain actions like lying and killing, the categorical imperative also demands that certain attitudes be adopted, such as helping others and cultivating oneâs talents. In this way, Kantâs ethics not only discourages immoral behavior but also clearly encourages positive moral behavior.
It is not Kantâs categorical imperative that concerns us here, or even the specific duties that result from it, but rather how duties should influence our decision making. According to Kant, we are endowed with autonomy, the ability to make decisions without undue influence from either external authority or internal desires. Autonomy implies that we canâand shouldâfollow our duties before attending to our wants.
Kantâs moral philosophy flew in the face of the common thinking of his time, which is represented by the famous statement of the Scottish philosopher David Hume (1711â1776) that âreason is, and ought only to be, the slave of the passions.â4 According to Hume (and others), the way to be moral is to develop moral attitudes or sentiments and make choices according to them. But Kant held that such attitudes are unreliableâjust because people âlikeâ being moral now doesnât guarantee they always willâand that truly moral behavior must be based on a recognition that duties take precedence over desires and preferences.
Furthermore, Kant held that in order to be moral, we must act not only according to duty but also for the sake of duty; in other words, the motivation behind an act is a better reflection of oneâs moral character than the act itself. For example, it seemed like a nice thing for Thomas to ask Daisy to go with him to the fair, but we know that he did it only to frustrate William, who truly cared for Daisy.5 We know that Thomas does kind things only when itâs in his own interest, so we donât think he deserves our praise for them. But when Mrs. Hughes helps the former maid Ethel support her baby boy and tries to forge connections with his father and his grandparents, we admire her for it (even though it didnât always work out).6 Today we say âItâs the thought that counts,â suggesting that most of us agree with Kant that the reason someone did something is a better guide to his or her moral character than what he or she actually did (or what resulted from it).
Matthew Keeps a Stiff Upper Lip
When Matthew Crawley first meets his cousin Lady Mary sparks do not exactly fly. He sees her as pretentious and stuffy, and she sees him as a usurperâand a hopelessly low class one at that (a solicitor, of all things!). It is obvious to the viewers, howeverâand crucially important for the Crawleys of Downton Abbeyâthat they will be together eventually, and over the course of the first two seasons they gradually realize it too, despite Matthewâs later engagement to Lavinia Swire and Maryâs engagement to Sir Richard Carlisle.
As the second season begins, the world is at war, with Matthew serving on the front lines in France. At the insistence of Matthewâs mother, Isobel, Downton Abbey is soon retrofitted as a convalescent home for officers, and after an explosion severely injures him, Matthew returns there to recuperate. Dr. Clarkson informs Matthew that his spine is irreparably damaged, paralyzing him from the waist down.7 Feeling unable to be a proper husband, he rejects his fiancĂ©e, Lavinia, and tells Mary that he would kill himself if she sacrificed her own marriage plans to take care of him.
Matthew obviously desires a loving wife. He was devastated at the end of the first season when Maryâs affection wavered in response to the possibility of a new heir to the Grantham fortune (the baby boy that her mother, Cora, loses as a result of her maid OâBrienâs knavery).8 When the second season begins, we find Matthew engaged to Lavinia, whose affections seem more reliable than Maryâs. Matthew craves the stability and devotion he can expect from Laviniaâbut also the excitement and challenge that is guaranteed from Mary.
While Matthewâs desires are strong, his devotion to duty is even strongerâin this case, his duty not to be a burden to others. Out of respect for this duty, he rejects both women after he is told of his impotence. Having pushed Lavinia away, he confides in Mary in the form of a quote from a Rudyard Kipling story: âI am the cat that walks by himself, and all places are alike to me. I have nothing to give and nothing to share.â9 Matthew regards himself as an unfit husband to any woman and so suppresses his desires for the sake of what he sees as his duty.10
Of course, it is natural to wonder whether Matthew truly acts out of duty, or out of a desire to be moral (or to be seen as moral) that overwhelms his desire for love and companionship. Although Kant said that to be moral we must act for the sake of duty, he fully recognized that we rarely know our true motivations for any good act, especially one that corresponds to both our desire and our duty.11 For instance, William enlisted in the army during wartime, against his fatherâs wishes, because he believed it was his duty, but also because he wanted to. His choice was no less moral for being partly based on desire; he simply had mixed motivations, duty and desire, both of which supported the same dutiful action. So even if Matthew does have a desire to be (or appear) moral, this would not make his sacrifice less admirableâas long as it is based on duty as well (as it seems to be).12
The Trials and Tribulations of Mr. Bates
Even though Matthew practices dutiful sacrifice, Mr. Bates is surely the all-time champion. Strong but silent and humble to a fault, Bates arouses strong reactions among the staff at Downton: Carson and Mrs. Hughes doubt his ability to serve as valet, given his pronounced limp, and Thomas and OâBrien resent what they see as his âhaughtyâ virtue. Lord Grantham, however, feels fiercely loyal to his former colleague-at-arms. Over time, most of Downton Abbey comes to appreciate him, none more so than Anna, whose long, wistful gazes leave no question about her growing affections for Lord Granthamâs new valet.
Bates falls in love with Anna also, launching the other great love affair of Downton Abbey. Like Matthew after his injury, however, Bates believes he is not good enough for his beloved, so he urges Anna to stay away from him and find a more worthy man instead. He clearly wants to be with her but feels unable to because of secrets in his past; these secrets come out one by one as the series progressesâand Anna travels to London to uncover some of them for herself. His adherence to his sense of duty to her, to protect her from the flawed man he considers himself to be, in the face of his love for her, makes him a compelling romantic heroâand, like Matthew, an example of Kantian respect for duty over desire.
Does Bates take this duty too far, though? Whether or not we agree with Matthewâs rejection of Mary and Lavinia, we can sympathize with his belief that his paralysis disqualified him from being a good husband (even the women he cast aside were taken aback by the news). But aside from Batesâs marriage to Veraâan important concern, no doubtâthe sources of Batesâs feelings of inadequacy seem less clear. He claims to have been a thief, for which he went to prison, but Anna finds out from his mother that Vera was the true thiefâcommitting a crime for which Bates assumed the blame and took the punishment. Because of this, Bates feels less than honorable and unworthy of a woman like Anna, whom he regards as a true lady.13 His perceived failings are a judgment of his own character rather than (as in Matthewâs case) his physical abilitiesâwhich is ironic, given his limp.
Batesâs predicament illustrates the importance of judgment in putting any ethical system into practice, including Kantâs. The duties generated by the categorical imperative are very generalâdo not lie, be...