Part I: Getting it together
So hereâs where your money makeover starts.
Before you do anything else, youâll need to get your current financial situation sorted out â you canât become a successful investor until you have a true picture of where you stand financially and a good understanding of where you want to go.
In part I, weâll cover everything youâll need to know in order to put yourself in the best position possible to start investing. And while things like setting goals and putting together a savings plan can sound all too much like hard work, you should never underestimate how important they are in swinging financial fortune in your favour.
In the next four chapters you will:
$ work out what money means to you
$ learn about good and bad debt (and how to get rid of the bad)
$ pick up some budgeting tips
$ uncover a couple of nifty techniques to help you save more than you ever thought possible
$ learn the fundamentals of becoming an investor.
Go forth and conquer!
Chapter 1: Setting your goals
There once was a girl called Sheree
Who dreamt of sailing the sea
She wrote a great plan
Worked hard as one can
And now sails her yacht off Fiji.
Ah, money. We have such a complex relationship with it. On the one hand weâve grown up being taught that âmoney makes the world go roundâ; and yet on the other hand, weâre taught that âmoney isnât everythingâ. Confused, anyone?
Before you can jump on the path to financial success, you need to look at the way you think about money and get rid of any preconceived ideas and bad money habits that might be holding you back. Like it or not, money affects every aspect of your life from where you live to how you live, so itâs vital that youâre the one calling the shots in your relationship, not the other way around.
You also need to stop for a moment and decide on your financial goals. Life whizzes by so fast that if you donât pause to give serious thought as to what you want to achieve financially (and why), future decisions may get made on the run without taking into account whatâs really important to you.
Then, as with any good makeover, you need to commit yourself to taking action. As they say, thereâs no time like the present â so giddy-up! In this chapter weâll cover:
$ your relationship with money: taking a look at yourself in the mirror
$ money myths: 10 thoughts to banish forever
$ setting goals: working out what you want to achieve
$ taking ownership: committing to making it happen.
Your relationship with money: taking a look at yourself in the mirror
As trusty old Dr Phil will tell you, you canât move forward until you have addressed the past. The same goes for your relationship with money. Over the years youâve probably collected baggage that you might not even know you have.
Often the way people behave with money is not built on reason, but on emotion. For example, splashing out on an expensive dress can be more about getting swept up in the adrenaline of a shopperâs high (or perhaps caught in the grips of a very persuasive salesperson) than anything else. How you think about money can also be related to what youâve been taught (or not been taught) growing up. Your familyâs attitude towards money can have a huge influence on the way you behave. If you grew up hearing that the only chance youâll ever have of becoming wealthy is by making it as a high-flying lawyer or a doctor, why would you think otherwise?
Itâs time to air your dirty laundry
Do you have any long-held notions about money that arenât doing you any favours? Have a good think about your attitude towards money. For example, do you think youâre just not one of âthe lucky onesâ and that youâll never be well off? Or are you waiting for that big pay rise or Tattslotto windfall to head your way before you start investing? Consider the way you behave with money and look at your habits closely â try to be as honest as you can. By understanding your attitude towards money and committing to changing those beliefs and behaviours youâre taking your first step towards financial success.
Examples of bad habits
Just like biting your nails, there are plenty of bad money habits that hold women back when it comes to taking control of their finances. Do any of these sound a little too familiar?
$ Pay Cheque Patty lives from pay cheque to pay cheque, finding herself with no savings and no cash left over at the end of each month.
$ Spendy Sasha finds it hard to resist a sale and easily gets caught up in buying frenzies, purchasing things she doesnât really need, only to regret it later.
$ Generous Georgie shouts dinner and drinks for her partner, friends and family way too frequently. She spends too much on gifts, and often finds that she doesnât have enough money to pay for essential living costs and bills for herself later. Generous Georgie has been spotted âloaningâ money to family members and friends who she knows are unlikely to pay it back.
$ No-Responsibility Nicki knows sheâs bad with money, but takes little action to change. Nicki knows that she can call on her friends, family and partner for a loan whenever she needs help â so she does.
$ Credit-Happy Chrissie views the money she has on her credit card as her own, and is all too happy to whip out the plastic to buy things she knows deep down she canât afford. Chrissie usually finds herself unable to pay off her credit card balance each month.
$ Bad-Deal Belinda doesnât shop around for a good deal on anything â bank interest rates, mobile phone deals, a new fridge, you name it. She never asks for a pay rise or promotion although she knows she deserves it.
Money myths: 10 thoughts to banish forever
Weâre a nation of list lovers â rich lists, best (and worst) dressed lists, the Triple J Hottest 100 list, we love them all. So we thought weâd join the ranks of list builders and come up with our very own. Without further ado we present the âTop 10 myths about money that you must banish from your mindâ list:
1. Money is dirty. While accumulating riches for the sake of it or aspiring to have three sports cars sitting in your garage could be considered questionable pursuits, having money can give you the power to do good by supporting the causes you believe in. I...