There have been many critiques of family lawâs adoption of norms and principles derived from liberal, market-based positive law. Eekelaar (2006, 2016), for example, suggested in 2006 that the values that ought to inform family law, or personal law, as he would call it, are friendship, truth, respect, responsibility and rights and, in 2016, thought kindness ought to be the primary value in family law. Barlow (2016) argues that family lawâs discourse ought to be solidarity rather than individuality. In common with others, these scholars criticise family lawâs recent turn to autonomy as a guiding principle. Feminist critiques in particular highlight the inappropriateness of promoting autonomy in intimate relationships (Herring 2014) not least because its supposed gender-neutral content and gender-blind application tend to disadvantage women (e.g. Herring 2014; Barlow 2016; Diduck 2016). Fineman (2011) goes further and takes the view that the legal subject in all areas ought to be understood as vulnerable rather than autonomous. Others suggest that there is something to be said for autonomy, but that the problem lies in the way it has been conceived and applied (e.g. Mackenzie and Stoljar 2000). They develop the notion of relational autonomy which, although crucial to all areas of law, has particular resonance in family living (e.g. Herring 2014). All of these critiques have in common their rejection of the norms and assumptions which underlie the liberal common law and the legal principles it has engendered.
This chapter offers a reflection on the received canon of the common law and family lawâs place within it, or indeed, outside it. I aim to provide another challenge to the idea that the problematic principles of the liberal law of the market can be extended justly to family law. Much of my focus will be on the principle of autonomy and its liberal âotherâ â vulnerability, and my point of departure is Lord Sumptionâs speech entitled âFamily law at a distanceâ delivered to the Royal College of Surgeons in June 2016 wherein he defines for us family lawâs and the common lawâs âinstinctsâ. After suggesting the two are opposed, he makes a case for their melding or at least meeting. He criticises what he sees as family lawâs unenlightened specialisation or insularity and, to do so, relies upon a number of assumptions about both the common law and family law. His plea to loosen the boundaries that he sees family law as creating between itself and other areas of law relies at the same time upon a whiggish view of legal history, an ahistorical view of the ânatureâ of law and its subjects, and a particular understanding of autonomy that is set in opposition to relationality and vulnerability. But his is not a particularly controversial perspective; it is the orthodox, liberal one that has become simply obvious. My comments are not intended therefore to be a challenge to his Lordship, but rather to that orthodox or standard view. My aim is not only to contest it; feminist and other critical scholars have been doing that for a generation. My aim is to challenge its seeming obviousness or apparent reasonableness as an argument for the continued reach of autonomy in family law, with its concomitant pursuit of contractualisation and privatisation. My reflections are feminist; first of all because they challenge the dichotomy assumed to be inherent in the standard view of autonomy and vulnerability. Second, they challenge the viewâs faith in lawâs coherence, and, thirdly, they offer a critical rather than liberal view of legal history and where we may be in that history right now. My reflections also acknowledge the material realities of gendered family living and family identities rather than neutralising them or abstracting them away.
As a reminder, here are Lord Sumptionâs words (pp. 2â3):
There is, however, a more fundamental reason for deprecating an excessively specialised approach. Law is, or at least should be, a coherent system. ⌠The practice of law, whether by judges or advocates, involves applying a range of common techniques and common instincts to a variety of legal problems. The common techniques are the objective construction of legislation and other written instruments, a respect for the body of decided case-law, and a sensitivity to changing attitudes in the world outside the law. The common instincts are those of the common law, which are essentially libertarian. They are founded on respect for the autonomy of the individual.
He goes on (p. 3):
Family law is in some respects special. Historically, it was not part of the common law, but belonged to the jurisdiction of the ecclesiastical courts. Traditionally, its instincts have been very different from those of the common law. They were paternalist and protective ⌠They were an assertion of the power of the state in an area of human affairs where the principle of autonomy has usually counted for much less.
He then agrees that â[m]odern family law has moved a long way from its originsâ (p. 3). Its instincts he says, âare not immutable, and the last few years has seen a convergence between family law and the instincts of the common law.â He uses Prest v Petrodel Resources Ltd and Others [2013] UKSC 341 as one illustration, but says that
in some ways the most striking pointer to the direction of travel is to be found in the cases about nuptial agreements ⌠In Radmacher the majority of the Supreme Court overtly justified the weight that they attached to them by reference to the principle of autonomy, rejecting the protective approach which had characterised the law administered by family courts for more than a century and a half. âIt would be paternalistic and patronisingâ, they said, âto override their agreement simply on the basis that the court knows bestâ.
Here we have his Lordship clarifying for us the âinstinctsâ of the common law and those of family law. He goes on to make a plea for increased âcross-fertilisation between different areas of lawâ and gently chastises family lawyers for seeming to rebuff this enlightened direction of travel: âThe family bar, I think, remains one of the more insular areas of practice. This deprives it of perceptions which would enrich it, as it has enriched other areas of lawâ (p. 6).
I will break down my reflections into three areas, although they are interlinked. The first is his Lordshipâs characterisation of the instincts of the common law and of family law; the second is the lens of evolution, or progress, through which he sees developments in family law over the years, and the third is his normative plea for coherence over all areas of law which ought to be advanced by extending to family law the common lawâs multipurpose common techniques and legal principles, including principles of autonomy and liberty.
Lord Sumptionâs choice of words here is interesting. âInstinctâ is defined in the OED as âa natural or intuitive way of acting or thinkingâ. Its synonyms are natural, inherent, unlearned. While this is a surprisingly ahistorical view for a historian like his Lordship to adopt, it comports well with a lawyerâs view of the law which identifies human nature and human rationality as the sources of its norms of liberty and autonomy. As many have said, however, and here I will illustrate with Joanne Conaghanâs (2013, p. 216) words, there is ample reason to suppose that this framework of modern law âemerges as the product of a confluence of historical contingencies yielding a particular historically specific instantiation of reason with deep roots in Enlightenment values and aspirationsâ. Indeed, âthere is a direct correlation between the emergence of liberal, political philosophical ideas premised on values of individual autonomy, freedom of choice and limited state intervention, and the shared human capacity to reasonâ which has âclear and significant implications for lawâ (ibid.). Law has come to be reason, and reason is defined by what it is not: emotion, esteem, desire, tradition, corporeality.
Relational autonomy and situational vulnerability
The standard view does not recognise âthe social conditions necessary for the possibility of autonomy, including the need for education, adequate food and shelter, real opportunities for participating in oneâs (minority) culture and in intimate living and loving, not to mention physical accommodations such as lifts, drive-throughs, wheelchair ramps, accessible vehicles, and so onâ (Anderson and Honneth 2005, p. 129). It does not acknowledge our everyday situational realities. A more compassionate and honest way to view humans would, on the other hand, see that our connections and particular social conditions are vital to the development and expression of our autonomy. And more fundamentally, these same connections, conditions and dependencies, which actually constitute our autonomy, also at the same time constitute our vulnerability, our need for shelter, education, food, intimate living and the like. Our situational realities, in other words, constitute us as simultaneously autonomous and vulnerable.
And so seeing autonomy differently allows us to see vulnerability differently. Our connectedness with others and our locations within social structures mean that we are always vulnerable, both in the social dynamics and power structures that affect the constitution and enjoyment of our autonomy and in the personal relationships and dependencies we experience. Vulnerability then, like autonomy, is constituted by human relationality; at this conceptual level, it is not a flaw or a weaknes...