Thereâs Nothing Revolutionary about a Blowjob
In the early 1970s, one of the authors was told by a member of the central committee of her Marxist-Leninist organization that it is part of her revolutionary responsibility to provide him with a blowjob. Young and earnest, she decided to write an internal response to this demand. She did not, at the time, call her response âThereâs Nothing Revolutionary about a Blowjob,â although this was her point, and instead wrote a paper entitled âTrue Love and the Transition to Socialism.â This chapter dwells somewhere between the two: the first point being that not only is such a demand utterly sexist, but it has nothing to do with revolution whatsoever, while the second is that the transition to socialism entails the possibility of loving differently, which demands nothing less than the complete reconfiguration of erotic relations. Unfortunately, the crucial search for the latter (i.e., erotic transformation) leads all too often into the attitude critiqued in the former (i.e., blowjobs conflated with revolutionary praxis). And this attitude is not present only in revolutionary parties. Indeed, one of the main motivations of this chapter is to question the âpoliticsâ of sexual acting out embraced by certain forms of queer and feminist (or, perhaps, postfeminist) theoryâa politics in which anything goes sexually, in which more and âbetterâ sex is seen as manifestly positive, and in which making any type of judgment about sex is viewed as inherently reactionary and conservative.
This form of sexual âpoliticsâ is largely a response to the perceived âsex negativityâ of U.S. culture which, according to Gayle Rubin, views sex with an automatic suspicion and hostility (2011: 148). For us, however, the leftâqueer, feminist, and socialistâhas, by and large, failed to adequately grapple with right-wing sexual moralism in the U.S., which is generally written off as merely a sign of ignorance and intolerance, and responded to by the proliferation and celebration of sexuality as a mode of resistance. For example, homosexuality has long been read by those on the right not only as a form of decadence, but as spreading a type of âinfectionâ throughout society as a whole. One response to this within queer theory is that the transmission of a queer infection to the social body is all to the good because, through an identification with the death drive, queers have the power and possibility of disabling the heterosexist foundations of the social as a whole (a claim we address extensively in Chapter 3). The problem, for us, goes much deeper than this to something that most feminist and queer theorists seem loath to acknowledge: the legitimate fear of ethical collapse that precipitates such virulence against queer subjects, a fear that takes a tremendous toll on the majority of people living under conditions of neoliberal capitalism (see Cornell 2005). In the face of this, a âpoliticsâ of sexual acting out seems rather impotent, if not itself part of the problem. As a result, we want to âreturnâ queer and feminist theory to revolution as the only ultimate solution to the rightful terror that comes with living in a dying empire, with all its violence (including sexual violence), its decadence, and the disintegration of anything like a shared ethical world that promotes what Michel Foucault called âthe care of the self and othersâ (1988).
To be sure, however, any revolution must include a profound confrontation with sexuality, or rather, something greater than âsexualityâ: the erotic. In this chapter, then, we assemble a genealogy of well-known thinkers to argue that a fundamental transformation in erotic life has âalwaysâ been a part of both feminist and socialist politics. Moreover, all of the thinkers in this long and important âtraditionâ also implicitly recognize that unless we completely undo the reign of Manâincluding phallocentric heterosexism and the reproduction of the species as it is currently configuredâthen communism will be nothing but an âempty signifierâ (Laclau 1996) or âIdeaâ (Badiou 2010). As such, these thinkers highlight erotic transformation as a crucial dimension of what Paget Henry has identified as the âvertical dramas of consciousnessâ that are independent from but necessary to the âhorizontal . . . dramas of nationalism, proletarian liberation, and societal reorganizationâ (2000: 121). The âverticalâ revolution, in Henry and other Africana and Caribbean philosophers, involves the deep transformations in the psyche that would enable one to live and engage differently with others in a world beyond colonialism, capitalism, and, as we are arguing here, phallocentric heterosexism. Throughout most of the genealogy we trace in this chapter, the âverticalâ and âhorizontalâ revolutionsâerotic restructuration and socialismâremain explicitly and inextricably linked. Erotic structuration, in other words, could never simply take the form of âsex,â and there could be no autonomous âsexual revolutionâ independent from the struggle against capitalism. This is markedly different from much of the queer and postfeminist theory of our postrevolutionary times in which the erotic has been reduced almost entirely to sex, and the revolutionary struggle for a different way of living together has been almost entirely abandoned.
Our central purpose here, then, is to review this ârevolutionary tradition and its lost treasure,â to borrow a phrase from Hannah Arendt (2006), and in doing so, to aim and fire at a branch of contemporary theory that has explicitly dissociated itself from revolution and, worse yet, from the life-affirming joy that lies at the very heart of what would motivate us to try to change the world together in the search for different forms of erotic relation beyond Man. Perhaps some of these recent theorists have it right, according to the tradition that we will discuss, given that within the constraints of advanced capitalism any affirmation of being sexual or sexuate otherwise will falter before the dictates of a day-to-day life under exploitation, leading us to believe that there is nothing âqueerâ we can possibly do other than embracing the death drive. Yet, of course, none of the writers in the revolutionary tradition would ever have thought that there could be any âfreedâ sexuality or different sexuation unless the dictates of modern capitalism were completely undone in the collective struggle to achieve communism. Simply put: if âpleasureâ is defined merely by whatever quick fuck you can fit in while working 86 hours a week, then no wonder pleasure seems like an embrace of the death drive, because who can put in that kind of time? And yet, why is it that the death drive, melancholia, and the forms of âpsychosisâ that have been celebrated in the queer literature are so rarely linked directly to the brutalities of life under capitalist exploitation? This point is certainly not lost on any of the revolutionary thinkers that we will discuss, all of whom explicitly connect all forms of psychic collapse to the capture of our individual and collective lives by phallocentrism and capitalism. We thus want to strongly insist that the turn toward âanything goesâ sexual pleasure-seeking found in both queer and postfeminist theory completely misses what was best in the thinkers who insisted that revolution must be thoroughgoing in all aspects of lifeâincluding the eroticâif it was to be at all worthy of the name of a communist life together. In other words, if part of capitalist exploitation includes the sexual commodification of what Foucault (1990a: 158) calls âbodies and pleasures,â then the struggle for communism must include the undoing of that commodification. Therefore, to challenge the norms around sexualityâeither in the name of being âanti-bourgeoisâ or in the name of âqueernessââcannot take place without a challenge to the commodifying grip of what we call âsexualityâ itself, as well as to the intimate connection of sexuality with capitalism. True love and the transition to socialism, we argue, entails an insistence that there is simply nothing revolutionary about a blow-job.
Feminism, Revolution, and the Erotic Underpinnings of the Social
Feminism has its birth in revolutionary politics. Indeed, from the dawn of the European âAge of Revolutions,â feminist thinkers have devoted themselves to understanding and, more importantly, transforming the erotic relations that lie at the root of all social and political formations. We see this clearly in the work of two of the most discussed early feminist philosophers, Mary Wollstonecraft and Olympe de Gouges. While these thinkers are often positioned as the foremothers of bourgeois âegalitarianâ feminism, we find in their work a deep and profound grappling with their realization that no truly ethical relations are possible within sexism. For both Wollstonecraft and de Gouges, what the French Revolution had revealed is that any revolutionary struggle to transform society in the name of justice is doomed to failure to the degree that it ignores the need for a radical reconfiguration of sexual difference. In fact, for them, without such a reconfiguration, the new ârights of manâ only further entrench the phallocentric foundations of society by tethering the new philosophy of human rights and the citizen to an overblown conception of Man. This is why in two major works ostensibly about ârightsââWollstonecraftâs 1792 A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (1992) and de Gougesâs 1791 DĂ©claration des droits de la femme et de la citoyenne (2011)âwe find a much stronger concern with the changes to erotic and family life necessary for those rights to even make sense. While de Gougesâs DĂ©claration calls for a womenâs National Assembly, offers an article-by-article revision of the 1789 DĂ©claration des droits de lâhomme et du citoyen, and famously argues that if women have the ârightâ to mount the scaffold then they have the right to full political participation, the bulk of her text is aimed at the ethical collapse endemic to phallocentric heterosexuality. De Gougesâs incisive critique of the toxic combination of menâs unchecked sexuality with womenâs complete lack of social, economic, and political autonomy leads her to highlight a general traffic in women that later feminist theorists such as Luce Irigaray (1985a, 1985b) and Gayle Rubin (2011) will recognize as constitutive of phallocentrism. And for de Gouges, this âtrade in women,â which includes both prostitution and aristocratic marriage, âfrom this time [i.e., the Revolution] onward will no longer be legitimate. If it were, the revolution would be lost and within the new order we would still be corruptâ (2011: 35â6). The revolutionary constitution of a ânew order,â then, is stalled by its own failure to confront and transform the exploitative erotic relations that lie at its heart.
By calling attention to the sexual exploitation of women, even in the new revolutionary dispensation, writers like de Gouges and Wollstonecraft unveil the erotic infrastructure of the social and the political, and feminism erupts as what Jacques RanciĂšre would call âdissensus.â âThe essence of politics,â for RanciĂšre, âis dissensus. Dissensus is not a confrontation between interests or opinions. It is the demonstration (manifestation) of a gap in the sensible itself. Political demonstration makes visible that which had no reason to be seen; it places one world in anotherâ (2010: 38). By making the âpersonalâ political, feminism challenges the particular âdistribution of the sensible [partage du sensible]â that privatizes erotic and sexual relations, making visible, manifesting, what had been relegated to the âdomesticâ sphere.1 These early feminists thus confront the dominant orderâincluding that of the Revolutionâwith what it has made invisible and absent, fundamentally shifting the partitioning of public or political and private life, and rendering the erotic a deeply political and ethical question. In its challenge not only to the unequal distribution of rights and material possibilities, but to the distribution of the sensibleânot only, that is, to how resources and privileges are allocated within society but to how the members of society sense their worldâfeminism brings in the erotic and sexual difference as âvertical dramas of consciousnessâ that must accompany the âhorizontalâ revolutionary struggle. From this time on, in other words, it is no longer possible to ignore that questions of erotic relation and sexual difference lie at the heart of our social formations and must be taken up in any revolutionary agenda.
Marxism, Private Property, and âWinged Erosâ
The early feminist contestation of the division between public and privateâand the relegation of women, children, and erotic relations to the private sphereâfinds an even fuller expression in the Marxist critique of private property. In his famous book The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State (2010), Friedrich Engels builds on Marxâs comments in The German Ideology to connect the origins of class exploitation with the origins of the privatized patriarchal nuclear family. He thus ties productive to reproductive labor, and identifies the family unit as a basis of private property and womenâs exploitation as a form of class exploitation. Engels saw, as have many Marxist feminists, that what is called âmonogamyâ is often a ruse for the reduction of women to commoditiesâprivate property to be owned by one manâwhile men remain free to exchange multiple women in the form of mistresses and prostitutes. For Engels, this degrades the entire ethical core of society and, as such, the privatized family must wither away in the struggle for communism. This process cannot, however, take place by simply making women into communal property, as is seen too often in the cases where obligations are placed on women to make themselves available to the Party men in the name of âThe Revolutionâ (as in the story that leads our chapter). Marx himself presciently foresaw this phenomenon and wrote virulently against it in The Economic and Philosophical Manuscripts of 1844. For Marx, the transformation of women into communal property is part of what he calls âcrude communism,â which is merely the abstract negation of private property. Far from undoing private property, however, this simple negation actually extends it to the âcommunity.â As Marx writes:
Physical, immediate possession is the only purpose of life and existence as far as this communism is concerned; the category of worker is not abolish...