The Fearless Student
It is true that we educators should approach our responsibilities to our students fearlessly and that they, as students of the world, should approach their learning fearlessly. But there is another layer to the idea of a fearless classroom. As I walk the hallways of elementary schools around our collective communities, I often hear the following statements echoing within the walls of the schools, which are even more concerning in the hearts of the kids who learn there.
āYou need to do your best on this test or you may have to repeat this grade.ā
āIf you donāt start working harder the next grade level is going to be even more difficult!ā
āYou need to sit down and be quiet! There is no talking in this classroom.ā
āIf you donāt get to work you will not have recess!ā
I cringe when I hear those comments. Why do we feel that it is more effective to scare students into submission or conformity than to encourage them to do the right thing and have integrity in their work?
What if our principal were to conduct an observation of one of our lessons? And what if he or she came up to us after the lesson and said, āYouāre not getting a contract next year because you didnāt try on that lessonā?
I know how I would feel. Iād feel defeated, then Iād get mad, then I would lose faith in him or her as a leader, and I would stop caring about what he or she had to say. I might decide to leave and go to another school, but, if I was cut from a different cloth, I might decide that I was not a good teacher and I would quit. I believe that I am no different than any other human. We all like to have praise for our efforts; recognition for the hard work we put in. Some of us need it more than others, but we all like it. So, perhaps a more accurate question would be, āHow could we encourage students to do the right thing and to have integrity in their work?ā How can we foster a classroom culture where students put their names on their work not because it is simply a means of identifying oneās work, or because it is an expectation of the teacher, but because they want to stake claim to the incredible effort that the work represents?
So how do we create a fearless classroom in these terms? How do we create a culture of supportive encouragement, praise, and validation?
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
āSVEN-GĆRAN ERIKSSON
Students respond to success much more readily than they do to failure. Behaviorally, the same sentiment rings true. We want children to find a competitive spark within themselves to set their own expectations and goals, and to work feverishly to achieve those goals. One of the ways I have successfully evoked this kind of climate in my classroom is to spend a few moments at the beginning of each day having students set their own academic goals. I keep them constantly informed of their academic achievements and areas of opportunity so that they can assess and evaluate for themselves what they need to do to reach their goals. At the beginning of the year, this is quite a teach piece, but by midyear they are exceptional at assessing their needs and writing reasonable and attainable goals for themselves. Additionally, through gamification, students are immersed in high scores, āunlockableā achievements, and level-ups, which add an engaging layer of commitment to producing their highest-quality work.
Another way I cultivate a fearless classroom is to always praise, even when disciplining or offering critical feedback. I praise effort and encourage brainstorming and risk-taking. When a student volunteers an inaccurate answer, I praise the contribution because it facilitates a discussion that leads to deeper learning. Without that student taking the risk and offering that inaccurate answer, the learning that takes place as a result might never have happened. So we celebrate it. This also provides that risk-taker with a pat on the back for trying, thus increasing the likelihood that he or she will try again. It instills a sense of fearless tenacity and determination to persevere.
If you were to visit my classroom and ask my students if they were scared or worried about the next grade, the state test, or their future, they would emphatically let you know that not only are they prepared, but also that they are excited about what the future holds for them. I want to make sure that this point is clearly stated: I do not fill them with ego-boosting coddling of empty compliments that have no validity to them. This isnāt about filling students with so much praise that they have a false sense of grandeur or arrogance. This is about helping students discover the genius within each of them and helping them realize that each of them has a gift that the world simply must experience.
Together, my students have developed the use of the cultural vernacular of OMG and LOL and BRB, which they coined to mean āObserving Major Genius,ā āLove Our Learning,ā and āBe Right-Brained,ā respectively. The kids believe in themselves and compete only with their own accomplishments. We are a family that supports each other and will work together to make sure that truly no child is left behind.
Preparing students for school is far less important than preparing them for life. They need to feel that they can accomplish anything but that sometimes that means a lot of hard work and it may take years before they realize their success. They need to believe in their abilities and potential, and to have frequent and consistent experiences with struggle, failure, and improving reattempts. They need to know that every moment, every experience, is an opportunity to learn and that they should embrace it with wonder and eagerness.
Scaring kids into performing on a test, or working independently, or being quiet or anything else is not only counter-productive, but also can actually set them up for failure that they are not going to be able to handle effectively and which could potentially destroy their ambitions to succeed.
The impossible often has a kind of integrity which the merely improbable lacks.
āDOUGLAS ADAMS
Students of all ages need to believe that what they are doing matters. In every context, throughout every content and activity, what they are doing must matter to them, or they will never understand that integrity falls squarely on their shoulders. And that their work, no matter how minute or mundane it may seem, is crucial to their development as a significant person in this world. It is our job to help form those connections from one concept to another. We must help them discover how what they have done in previous grades or lessons were all precursors to what they are doing now, and how what they are doing now will ultimately help them find success down the line. But more important than any of that is this: We as educators must foster the idea that nothing is impossible when great minds believe in possibilities. Failure must become a welcome stepping-stone to success rather than a barrier. Many educators believe that failure can destroy self-esteem and the willingness to take future risks. So how do we do this? How do we help our students discover the āIām Possibleā within themselves?
First of all, just telling kids that they are incredible and that you believe in them is no longer enough. Kids are smart enough to pick up on lip service. We can be the kindest, most supportive teachers in the game and still have kids feeling unworthy of praise, incapable of success, and unwilling to try. Why is this? It is because we are the teachers and we present ourselves as the primary source of information and therefore know just about everything there is to know about everything. āBecause I said soā can be readily used when we really donāt know, but what does that say to the kids? I try to interject something new into every class periodāsomething new that I have never done before either. I call it my Genius Table and we work through the activities together. They see me struggle, adapt, adjust my strategies and thinking, fail, fail, fail, fail, fail, fail ⦠fail, try again and again ⦠and sometimes still end up unsuccessful. That is until I am successful. Maybe it is a Sudoku problem, or a Mensa question, or a new task like needlepoint or even a tough jigsaw puzzle. Anything will do as long as none of us has a clue as to how to accomplish the task.
Their faces light up when they get farther in the task than I do. But even more impressive is the look on their faces when their āgenius, award-winning teacherā struggles and fails right along with them. She doesnāt get upset, she doesnāt quit, and she doesnāt feel sorry for herself. She laughs, thinks, talks to them, and asks them for advice and help. This is where true learning happens. This is when the impossible becomes āIām Possible.ā
Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail.
āCHARLES F. KETTERING
When a child believes that there is no such thing as failure, that every unsuccessful trial is simply data for how to succeed, then failure truly loses its power over them. They embrace it. They long for it. They know that if they are failing now it only means that they are getting closer to the solution. Students need to experience this feeling and feel it fully every single day. It starts, though, with you. You have to let go of the fear that a less than stellar grade somehow reflects poorly on you as the teacher. Take the lackluster academic performances and troubleshoot them with the student. Sit down and discuss item by item what went wrong. Allow them to explain their thinking and how they came to their answer. Listen. Take notes. Donāt speak other than to smile and say things like, āAh, yes, I see how you could get that. Thatās a very interesting and smart thinking process you had!ā Say this because indeed it was. Then, in true fearless fashion, send the student back to try again by asking a pointed question like, āWhat if this question were about (something they are interested in and passionate about like baseball for example)? How might you have answered it then? What if you were to rewrite this question in terms of baseball? How might you answer it then?ā
Impossible only means that you havenāt found the solution yet.
āMARK TWAIN
Engage students in global conversations. Connect with classrooms within your campus, community, state, country, and internationally. Have these same conversations with other students. Allow your struggling students to discuss and collaborate on solutions to problems with students from other classrooms and schools. We have successfully completed several international projects, which are highlighted later in this book. Students were required to learn from each other, collaborate with other cultures, be patient over time zones, and learn with and from others. What a fantastic way to show new ways of thinking and problem solving with empathy and global mindedness! It truly shows students that anything can be accomplished when we allow ourselves to ask for help and listen respectfully to others.
No one gets very far unless he accomplishes the impossible at least once a day.
āELBERT HUBBARD
We need to facilitate student perseverance. We must give them frequent and purposeful challenges through which they will struggle, fail, try again, fail, and eventually come to a place where they either successfully find a solution or come close enough to a solution that adequately satisfies their thirst to succeed. We want their passions to be celebrated and taken seriously. We want them approaching their learning with as much determination and vigorous enthusiasm as they do their favorite games or other passions. In the first ten years of my teaching career I heard so frequently the following sentiments echoed in the voices of my students:
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