BLOB TREE
There are hundreds of ways to use this one simple image. First, we need to unpack its basic elements.
The Tree
This is a place, a group or an organisation. It could be your family, a club, a group of friends, a church, a school, an office, a football team, a group that travel by bus, a set of friends online, the latest panellists on a television talent show, or even just yourself.
By being a tree it doesnāt restrict itself to a single place, so it can be used in any context. There is a platform and a rope to swing on. What do they symbolise? They might represent safety, leadership, separation, fun or wastefulness. It depends on how you feel as you look at them, and how you feel that day! Sometimes there is more than one tree, because the way other groups interact with us affects how our group feels.
The Blobs
These are a variety of characters expressing a variety of feelings. Itās very important to use the name Blobs, rather than āheā or āsheā, because they are not white males or females, but genderless and colourless. Ask questions such as, āHow do you think this Blob feels?ā or āWhich Blob do you think is the saddest and why?ā This neutral term includes everyone and keeps the Blob tool as open as possible. Members of your group may continue to ascribe gender to the Blobs but, as long as you set the lead, most of the group will adopt your expressions.
The Blobs in the Tree are interacting as all groups do. They are also interacting with the Tree. They have placed themselves on the Tree, or are trying to get on the Tree. It is important to consider their places. Some people only feel able to select from the Blobs at the bottom of the Tree, while others tend to fly straight to the top! The selection of a Blob is a snap-shot of how that person is feeling at that very moment. Some people record a date next to the image to retain that for their work. When talking at a conference of educational psychologists, Ian discovered that many use the Blob Tree page as a visual assessment tool, recording their clientās responses straight onto the image.
The Grass
Under the Tree, and away from it, is the Grass. It conveys being outside the Tree, a place where you might go after climbing out of the Tree. This isnāt necessarily a negative place. After a youth group, a day at work or an evening out with your family it is nice to retreat and relax away from the group dynamic. So the Grass might simply be that ā a place of respite. It can also be a place of opposition to what is going on in the Tree. As such, it is worth exploring what people mean when they say āI want to be on the Grassā. The proximity to the Tree is worth noting as again it gives clues to how people are feeling at that moment in time.
Reflection exercises
Some people have been introduced to the Blob Tree at a training session where they were asked to tell someone how they felt at the start of the day, and then again at the end. While this is a useful approach, in order to use the Blob Tree and all the different Blob tools, you need to use them in a deeper way.
The activities which follow are best to be done alone first, and then with a friend, so that you begin to understand your own responses, before working with others. It is by understanding ourselves that we can see clearly to help other people. Otherwise, we are merely the blind leading the blind.
Try not to skip any of the exercises and donāt rush through them. As you answer the questions allow yourself time to wander around the Tree to identify which Blob(s) answer the question. Sometimes it is more than one Blob because we are a combination of feelings.
Exercise 1
As you stand at the foot of the Tree, consider which Blob you would like to be with most.
Do this and then carry on.
The Blob you have chosen is an important place to begin. It probably represents your comfort zone, somewhere you feel safe and secure. That place of safety may extend beyond one Blob. Ask yourself why you want to be on that branch with that Blob. What makes them so attractive? Some people choose a branch with many Blobs; others choose to sit with a sad, quiet Blob. Our choice is our choice; thereās no right choice, no wrong choice and no unacceptable choice. Even if we donāt want to join in, that is merely another choice.
All we have to do is choose.
When I (Ian) made my first choice I discovered that I began to think about why I had decided to sit with that Blob. I discovered that my choice was different from my friendās choice. I discovered that I was different from others.
Pip often asks people to look at their fingerprints. He invites people to touch someone elseās fingerprints with theirs. Our uniqueness encounters the uniqueness of others. It is a moment to appreciate our differences and value them.
Exercise 2
As you stand at the foot of the Tree today, consider which Blob you would least like to sit next to.
Do this and then carry on.
It may be a different Blob from the one you chose yesterday; it may be the same. Our feelings change from day to day. As we experience new events, and different people who cause us to rethink our actions, our choices change.
Sit with that Blob and ask yourself why you find them so difficult to be with.
- ā¢ Are they like someone you try to avoid in your life?
- ā¢ Are they like someone in your family?
- ā¢ Do they remind you of yourself?
When we find a feeling that makes us uncomfortable, it would be easier to move away, back to the cosy branch. In order to grow, we need to explore why we feel that way.
Exercise 3
As you stand at the foot of the Tree, consider which Blob you feel like on your birthday.
Do this and then carry on.
For some people a birthday is a celebration, for others it is another step closer to death. Ask yourself:
- ā¢ How do you celebrate it?
- ā¢ What feelings does it stir in you each year?
- ā¢ Have you always felt like this or has it changed as you have got older?
- ā¢ Do you like to have lots of people round, just a few close friends and family or to be on your own?
- ā¢ Which Blob would spoil your birthday fun ā¦ and why?
Exercise 4
As you stand at the foot of the Tree, consider which Blob you feel like when you walk into your home.
Do this and then carry on.
Each time we walk into our home it stirs such strong feelings. For some people it is a place of refuge; for others it is a place of trouble and torment.
Ask yourself:
- ā¢ What makes you feel the way you do about home?
- ā¢ Who makes home special or awful for you?
- ā¢ Who do you have to support at home, and who supports you?
- ā¢ Have you always felt like this about home?
Exercise 5
As you stand at the foot of the Tree, consider which Blob you felt like yesterday.
Do this and carry on.
Ask yourself:
- ā¢ Was yesterday an enjoyable experience?
- ā¢ Did you feel like several Blobs depending on the ups and downs of the day?
- ā¢ Have you ...