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PLAN Chapter 1
Your head space
Why you can write a book, even if you think itâs beyond you
Risk comes from not knowing what youâre doing.
Warren Buffet, one of the worldâs
most successful investors
As the then US Secretary of State for Defense, Donald Rumsfeld, famously once said, âThere are things we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say there are things that we now know we donât know. But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things we donât know we donât know.â1
Although he was lampooned for it at the time, if you read his words carefully youâll find they make sense because we donât always realise what we donât know. In your case this can take the form of a set of unrecognised, and therefore unchallenged, assumptions about what it means to write a book. If youâve been putting off making a start for some time, or if youâve completed your first few chapters only to grind to a halt, you can be pretty sure that one or more of these beliefs is whatâs stopping you.
In this chapter youâll learn how to reveal the invisible barriers to you proceeding with your book, a bit like a radiologist exposes your hidden parts in an x-ray. Then youâll be able to deal with them.
Why havenât you written a book already?
Thereâs a gremlin who loves to sit on the shoulders of all budding authors whispering,âWhatâcha gonna do about me? Iâm your book. Iâve been here a while, havenât I? In fact, itâs been a couple of years. Strange how youâve never done anything about me so far, apart from buy a book about writing a book (although itâs a brilliant one). Maybe youâre not cut out for it. Better give up now before you waste even more time.â
If that gremlin sounds familiar, youâre not alone. I once asked a number of respected business experts why it was theyâd not yet written a book. They gave me a whole bunch of reasons, which boil down to nine main obstacles. The good news is, none of them is real.
Warning: my thoughts on this may get you started on your book!
I donât have enough time to write a book
Which is really the same asâŚ
My book isnât a priority
It would take so long, I feel like giving up before I start.
Iâve got too much client work to carve out the time.
Or my favourite:
I need three months on a desert island to write a book.
Thereâs no getting around it: writing a quality business book is a sizeable undertaking because itâs supposed to be. Thatâs why authors have a special status â they know enough about their subject to write something that has the potential to transform their readersâ businesses and lives. It was never going to be an assignment they could knock out in a couple of weeks, and thatâs fine because itâs not always the easy achievements that make the difference.
As bestselling author and business thinker Seth Godin succinctly put it: âThe book that will most change your life, is the book you write.â If you feel strongly about writing one, find a way to make time. How do you prioritise your most important work right now? Do you plan it in your calendar, incentivise yourself to finish it, or just assume it will be done and magically it happens? Thereâs no reason why your book should receive a different treatment.
If that doesnât work, try this. How would you feel if you discovered in six monthsâ time that your arch-competitor had just published the book thatâs currently sitting in your head?
Iâm worried my book will have flaws
I sympathise with this. As a recovering perfectionist, I understand how easy it is to stop myself before I start because Iâm worried I might produce something that contains mistakes or oversights.
What if there are spelling errors?
What if I realise after itâs published that I left out something important?
What if I get something wrong?
These are common fears, but thatâs all they are. As Elizabeth Gilbert phrased it in her wonderful book about creativity and writing, Big Magic: âI think perfectionism is just fear in fancy shoes and a mink coat, pretending to be elegant when actually itâs just terrified.â2Of course your book doesnât have to be perfect. What is?
I donât know where to start
That old chestnut. When weâre faced with substantial tasks itâs normal to feel daunted. What should the book be about? Who would want to read it? How to outline it so it makes sense for our readers? We ask ourselves so many questions that we can run out of steam and give up. There are various ways to approach your book outline and none of them is rocket science; you just need some simple ground rules to get you going. Iâll give you a clue as to where youâll find those guidelines: in the book youâre holding right now.
I hate writing and Iâm no good at it
Thereâs no getting away from the fact that some people find writing easier and more enjoyable than others, but letâs unpack this. Disliking an activity is not the same as being bad at it, and yet we think that if it doesnât âfeel rightâ someone on high (who?) has decreed we shouldnât be doing it. This is a story weâve made up for ourselves, and it can be handy when weâre looking for an excuse to throw in the towel.
Another way to look at this is as a matter of unfamiliarity. When you were at school you werenât taught how to write a book, so itâs natural to feel daunted by the idea. But if you think of it as writing a short story that happens to get longer, or as a series of related blog posts, youâll realise youâve accomplished something like it many times before.
On a more practical note, if you really donât think youâre any good at writing itâs likely this is a problem a good editor or even a ghostwriter can sort out. And donât worry too much about grammar and spelling; thatâs what copy editors and proof readers are for.
I donât know enough to write a book
Letâs consider this for a moment. Do you help people through your work? Do you have happy clients? Have you been working in your field for a while and gained a heap of knowledge along the way? Set your stopwatch for 20 minutes and scribble down the things you know about your specialist area. And I mean all of them. Itâs so easy to take for granted what we do every day and Iâd be amazed if you werenât able to fill a fair few pages with what you know, believe, have experienced, and learned during the course of doing your work.
No one would read it
How do you know? Have you asked everyone? Seriously though, this is a good time to do some research on your topic because itâs true, some people do write books that few want to read. Thatâs not necessarily because they donât have anything worth writing, itâs because there wasnât a demand for what they had to say in the first place (more on how to avoid that later). Ask your past and present clients if they would value a book about your field, or survey your email list. Itâs worth proving to yourself that your book is in a readable niche, both for your own confidence and because it makes business sense.
Thereâs too much competition
How many cookery books are on your kitchen shelf? If youâre into a hobby, how many do you own on that? Try searching Amazon for books on photography, for example â there are thousands, many of which have decent sales to their name. In fact, if you see competition in your field it proves itâs a fertile area because when people want to know about a topic they often buy more than one book on it.
I have over 50 books on my Kindle on the craft of writing, and more on my bookshelf. Yet Iâm still writing a book about writing a business book because I trust I have something valuable to contribute. Plus, you have your own unique take on your subject, which means that your book can never be a copy of someone elseâs. Nobody has the final word on any subject.
People might not like it
I remember coaching a speaker who was writing her book with me. Sheâd been an academic in her previous career and was now a well-respected consultant to finance professionals (not an academic in sight). She was concerned that her erstwhile co-workers would look down on her newly non-academic writing style and privately criticise her for it; she could almost see their eyebrows arch and lips purse as they read. This was blocking her from progressing. When I reminded her that she wasnât writing for them, and that theyâd be unlikely to spend their spare time reading a book that had little to do with their interests in any case, she relaxed and her book flowed once more. Ironically, after it was published she discovered it had been placed on student reading lists due to its helpful content and accessible style.
If youâre feeling self-conscious as you write, turn around. Whoâs there? While Iâm writing I can find myself accompanied by a crowd of frowning onlookers, but I try not to let them stop me. I love this comment from one of my all-time favourite business and self-help book authors, Robert Cialdini, who said that prior to writing his first mainstream book Influence heâd been in the habit of writing with an academic audience âon his shoulderâ. Once he realised this, he swapped it for a mental image of one of his neighbours who symbolised his new target reader.3
Who am I to write a book?
What all these reasons lead to is the ultimate question: âWho am I to write a book? Iâm not wise/special/famous/clever enough to do thatâ (delete as appropriate). Even if you donât feel like this now â and I hope you donât â there may come a point in your journey when self...