Module IX
Relapse Prevention Skills
Exercise 1: Taking Stock and Considering Lessons Learned
Exercise 2: Creating My Personal Risk Diary
Exercise 3: Coping with Urges and Cravings
Exercise 4: How to Plan Ahead
Exercise 5: Implementing My Relapse Prevention Plan
Consider the following chronic re-occurring medical conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, asthma and arthritis, each of which may result in further episodes. When such re-occurring medical instances happen, we do not call them ārelapsesā. William Miller (2015) compares addictions, which are also a chronic relapsing condition to such medical re-occurring disorders, and he proposes that we should not label substance abuse lapses as ārelapsesā. He highlights that:
āthe term ārelapseā invokes potentially demoralizing overturns of shame, blame, and failure that are unlikely to inspire change.ā (Miller et al., 2019, p. 333)
The concept of ārelapseā conveys a sense of failure to patients, significant others and to the Treatment Team.
Now staying with the medical analogy, consider a patient who has a chronic medical condition such as diabetes and who, for a variety of reasons, is not adherent to his/her collaboratively agreed-upon treatment protocol. The diabetic patient does not monitor on a regular basis his/her glucose level, fails to self-administer insulin, does not exercise, nor follow a proscribed dietary plan and do foot care. The diabetic educator and the Healthcare Professional Team will likely work with the diabetic patient to determine the factors, obstacles and challenges that undermine the patientās treatment non-adherence.
The Healthcare Professional may help the diabetic patient develop a ārisk diaryā of both external and internal triggers (activities, places, people, negative and positive emotions) that contribute to such lapses. The Treatment Team will help the diabetic patient develop and deliberately practice a set of coping skills in order to learn how to anticipate and address such interfering factors. This type of intervention is known as Relapse Prevention Training.
This Module IX is designed to provide examples of how Relapse Prevention Training can be employed with individuals with various addictive and co-occurring psychiatric disorders. How can individuals come to view any such lapse as a ālearning opportunityā, and as a āteachable momentā, and not ācatastrophizeā, and view it as a āfailureā and fall back to a point of total relapse?
Thus there is a need to draw a distinction between the pejorative, judgmental, demoralizing use of the term ārelapseā that conveys a sense of failure, versus the clinically valuable use of Relapse Prevention Skills that help addictive individuals learn how to continue their journey of recovery.
This module provides a āgame planā on how to develop and implement Relapse Prevention Skills to reduce the likelihood of such lapses becoming relapses. It focuses on how you can develop a Sobriety Script that you can plan ahead in order to avoid and cope with āhigh-riskā temptation situations and develop coping resources.
This module will help you take charge of your life and exert personal control, making safe choices. It will guide you in ways you can exercise the frontal lobe of your brain and use executive Type II thinking skills, so you can achieve your treatment goals.
Remember, you are not a mere āvictimā of circumstances, of your feelings and thoughts, your urges and cravings, social pressures and interpersonal stressors. You have the power to become a āsurvivorā, and even a āthriverā. You can become the decider of your own path.
Ways to Develop a Sobriety Script
One can think of human behavior consisting of people having different āscriptsā in their head that they follow. For example, we learn cultural scripts on how to behave in restaurants, attend funerals, date, discipline children and the like.
In order to help individuals to remain abstinent and resist temptations, cope with cravings and urges, it is helpful to develop a Sobriety Script in order to reduce the likelihood of āslipsā and lapses. A Sobriety Script can reduce the likelihood of a single lapse escalating into a full blown relapse. This module will ask you to put together in written form, a carefully prepared, personalized Script of self-statements and behaviors that you can use to remain substance free and cope with stress and urges to use. The more detailed the Script or recovery plan, the greater likelihood it will be carried out and work.
Moreover, you will be asked to write down the important reasons for developing and following your Sobriety Script. What might get in the way of you following your Sobriety Script, and how can you learn to anticipate and handle these potential obstacles should they arise?
Remember the description of the golfer Jack Nicklaus that was included in Module IV. He described how he played a movie āinside his headā ā a Script. He started with his goal and worked backwards. In his mind he took himself on a journey ābackwards in timeā. Can you do this in thinking through and planning ahead for how you can handle āhigh-riskā situations? It is important that you not only write out these steps, but that you share your Script and the accompanying reasons with the Treatment Team, fellow patients and significant others in your life.
In your effort to share your Sobriety Script with others, you are making a public commitment and can help convince yourself of the value of following your āgame planā or Script.
Should a lapse ever occur, you can revisit your Sobriety Script and figure out what went wrong and how you can use such slips as a ālearning opportunityā. The notion of having Scripts in mind can be applied to any stressful event that you might have to deal with. For example, consider the Script you might call upon to āask your boss for a raiseā, or how you might āapologize to someone who you have hurt in the pastā.
Part of raising children is to teach them how to develop and implement Scripts. Having Scripts in your head is like going on a journey. It is like having a GPS in your head and when needed, you can ārecalibrateā.
Exercise 1. The first step in developing a Sobriety Script is to take stock of your past efforts. What Scripts have worked and not worked in the past?
In Exercise 2, you will be asked to identify current and future high-risk situations, and learn how to become your own āpersonal detectiveā and develop a risk diary. We will consider what are potential triggers or cues that lead to urges and cravings, and how you can reduce their impact and eliminate them from your life.
In Exercise 3, you will learn how to cope with urges and cravings and how to ātalk backā to the part of your lower emotional brain that is trying to āhijackā your ability to exert personal control and that interferes with and undermines your decision making processes.
In Exercise 4, you will explore the variety of specific coping and recovery strategies you can use in your journey to sobriety and well-being. How...