Chapter 1
What is basic for young children?
Lilian G. Katz
Lilian G. Katz is Professor Emerita of Elementary and Early Childhood Education at the University of Illinois (Urbana-Champaign) and is currently Co-Director of the Clearinghouse on Early Education and Parenting (CEEP) at the University of Illinois. Professor Katz is the author of more than 100 publications, including articles, chapters and books about early childhood education, teacher education, child development and parenting of young children. She and her late husband Boris Katz have three grown children, five grandsons and one grand-daughter.
A group of young college students were discussing their reactions to their teaching practice experiences. One described her experience in deeply disappointed tones. Among her complaints was that the programme director refused to let the children have small animals in the nursery. I listened appreciatively for a while to the righteous indignation only the young and inexperienced can enjoy. I then asked her as gently as I could: âWhat are the chances that a child can develop into a competent adult without having had animals to play with in the nursery?â âIn other wordsâ, I said âwhat do you believe is really basic for young children?â A lively discussion followed, leading all of us to search our own assumptions for answers to the question: What does each child have to have for optimum development? My answer to this question is outlined below by offering six interrelated propositions that I hope will be helpful to you as you inspect your own answers to the same question.
All six propositions below rest on the assumption that whatever is good for children is only good for them in the ârightâ proportions. In other words, just because something is good for children, more of it is not necessarily better for them. This generalisation applies to so many influences on childrenâs development that I refer to it as the âprinciple of optimum effectsâ. Among the many examples are attention, affection, stimulation, independence, novelty, choices of activities and so on. All of these can be thought to be good for children, but only in optimum amounts, frequencies or intensities. Furthermore, what might be optimal for one child might not be for another; that is why it is so important to get to know each child, as well as to know about them. With this principle as backdrop, here is my list of what every child has to have for healthy development.
A sense of safety
The young child has to have a deep sense of safety. I am referring here to psychological safety, which we usually speak of in terms of feeling secure, that is the subjective feeling of being strongly connected and deeply attached to one or more others. Experiencing oneself as attached, connected â safe â comes not just from being loved, but from feeling loved, feeling wanted, feeling significant, to an optimum (not maximum) degree. Note that the emphasis is more on feeling loved and wanted than on being loved and wanted. There are, no doubt, many children who are loved, but for a wide variety of reasons, do not necessarily feel loved.
As I understand early development, feeling strongly attached comes not just from the warmth and kindness of parents and caregivers. The feelings are a consequence of children perceiving that what they do or do not do really matters to others â matters so much that others will pick them up, comfort them, get angry and even scold them. Safety, then, grows out of being able to trust people to respond not just warmly but authentically, intensely and honestly.
Optimum self-esteem
This proposition applies to all children, whether they live in wealthy or poor environments, whether they are at home or at school, whether they have special needs or typical needs, whatever their age, gender, race, ethnic group or nationality. Every child has to have optimal â not excessive â self-esteem.
One does not acquire self-esteem at a certain moment in childhood and then have it forever. Self-esteem is nurtured by and responsive to significant others: adults, siblings and other children, throughout the growing years. Even more important to keep in mind here is that one cannot have self-esteem in a vacuum. Self-esteem is the effect of our evaluations of ourselves against criteria that we acquire very early in life. We acquire these criteria from our families, neighbourhoods, cultures, ethnic groups and later on from peer groups and the larger community. These criteria against which we come to evaluate ourselves as acceptable and worthwhile, and against which we evaluate and experience ourselves as lovable may vary from family to family. In some families, beauty is an important criterion for esteem; in others, neatness or athletic ability or toughness are the criteria against which oneâs worth is evaluated or estimated. Consider for a moment that such personal attributes as being dainty, quiet, garrulous, pious, well-mannered or academically precocious, might constitute the criteria against which the young children we serve are evaluated as being estimable.
It is, of course, the right, if not the duty, of each family to establish what it considers to be the criteria against which each member is judged acceptable and upon which esteem is based. The processes and the patterns by which these judgements are implemented are not likely to occur at a conscious level in either formulation or expression.
One of our responsibilities as educators is to be sensitive to the criteria of self-esteem that children bring with them to the early childhood setting. We may not agree with the familyâs definition of the âgood boyâ or the âgood girlâ, but we would be very unwise to downgrade, undermine, or in other ways violate the self-esteem criteria that children bring with them to the early childhood setting. At the same time, we must also help children acquire criteria in the setting that serves to protect the welfare of the whole group of children for whom we are responsible. I cannot think of any way in which it could be helpful to children to undermine their respect for their own families.
Feeling that life is worth living
Every child has to feel that life is worth living, reasonably satisfying and interesting most of the time, and authentic. This proposition suggests that we involve children in activities and interactions about activities which are real and significant to them, and which are intriguing and absorbing to them. I have in mind here the potential hazard inherent in modern industrialised societies of creating environments and experiences for young children which are superficial, phony, frivolous and trivial. I suggest also that we resist the temptation to settle for activities that merely amuse and titillate children. Thus, criteria for selecting activities might include that they (a) give children opportunities to examine their own experiences and to reconstruct their own environments and that they (b) give adults opportunities to help children learn what meanings to assign to their own experiences.
Visits to early childhood programmes around the world often provoke me to wonder whether we have taken our longstanding emphasis on warmth and kindness, acceptance and love to mean simply âLetâs be nice to childrenâ. As I watch adults being nice and kind and gentle, I wonder also whether if I were a child in such pleasant environments I would look at the adults and ask myself something like âEverybody is kind and sweet, but inside them is there anybody home?â
Children should be able to experience their lives throughout their growing years as real and satisfying, whether they are at home, in childcare centres, in playgroups, or in schools.
Help with making sense of experience
Young children need adults and others who help them make sense of their own experiences. By the time we meet the young children in our care, they have already constructed some understandings of their experiences. Many of their understandings or constructions are likely to be inaccurate or incorrect, though developmentally appropriate. As I see it, our major responsibility is to help the young to improve, extend, refine, develop and deepen their own understandings or constructions of their own worlds. As they grow older and reach primary school age, it is our responsibility to help them develop understandings of other peopleâs experiences, people who are distant in both time and place. Indeed, increasing refinement and deepening of understandings is, ideally, a lifelong process.
We might ask: âWhat do young children need or want to make sense of?â Certainly of people, of what they do, and why they do it, of what and how they feel; and of themselves and other living things around them, how they themselves and other living things grow; where people and things come from, and how things are made and how they work, and so forth.
If we are to help young children improve and develop their understandings of their experiences, we must uncover what those understandings are. The uncovering that we do, and that occurs as children engage in the activities we provide, helps us to make good decisions about what to âcoverâ next and what follow-up activities to plan. Keep in mind that one of our responsibilities as teachers is to educate childrenâs interests.
Authoritative adults
Young children have to be around adults who accept the authority that is theirs by virtue of their greater experience, knowledge and wisdom. This proposition is based on the assumption that neither parents nor educators are caught between the extremes of authoritarianism or permissiveness (Baumrind 1971). Authoritarianism may be defined as the exercise of power without warmth, encouragement or explanation. Permissiveness may be seen as the abdication of adult authority and power, although it may offer children warmth, encouragement and support as they seem to need it. I am suggesting that instead of the extremes of authoritarianism and permissiveness, young children have to have around them adults who are authoritative â adults who exercise their very considerable power over the lives of young children with warmth, support, encouragement and adequate explanations of the limits they impose upon them. The concept of authoritativeness also includes treating children with respect â treating their opinions, feelings, wishes and ideas as valid even when we disagree with them. To respect people we agree with is not a great problem; respecting those whose ideas, wishes and feelings are different from ours or troubling to us, may be a mark of wisdom in parents and of genuine professionalism in teachers and childcare workers.
Desirable role models
Young children need optimum association with adults and older children who exemplify the personal qualities we want them to acquire. Make your own list of the qualities you want the young children for whom you are responsible to acquire. There may be some differences among us, but it is very likely that there are some qualities we can agree that we want all children to have: the capacity to care for and about others, the disposition to be honest, kind, accepting of those who are different from ourselves, to love learning, and so forth.
This proposition suggests that we inspect childrenâs environments and ask: To what extent do our children have contact with people who exhibit these qualities?â To what extent do our children observe people who are counter-examples of the qualities we want to foster, but who are also presented as glamorous and attractive?â It seems to me that children need neighbourhoods and communities (as well as the media) which take the steps necessary to protect them from excessive exposure to violence and crime during the early years while their characters are still in formation.
Children need relationships and experience with adults who are willing to take a stand on what is worth doing, worth having, worth knowing and worth caring about. This proposition seems to belabour the obvious. But in an age of increasing emphasis on pluralism, multiculturalism and community participation, professionals are increasingly hesitant and apologetic about their own values. It seems to me that such hesitancy to take a stand on what is worthwhile may cause us to give children unclear signals about what is worth knowing and doing and what is expected.
Taking a stand on what we value does not guarantee that our children will accept or agree with us. Nor does it imply that we reject othersâ versions of the âgood lifeâ. We must, in fact, cultivate our capacities to respect alternative definitions of the âgood lifeâ. My point is that when we take a stand, with quiet conviction and courage, we help the young to see us as thinking and caring individuals who have enough self-respect to act on our own values and to give clear signals about what those values are.
In summary, these six propositions are related to our responsibilities for the quality of the daily lives of all our children â wherever they spend those days, throughout the years of growth and development. We must come to see that the wellbeing of our children, of each and every child, is intimately and inextricably linked to the wellbeing of all children. When one of our own children needs lifesaving surgery, someone elseâs child will perform it. When one of our own children is struck down by violence, someone elseâs child will have inflicted it. The wellbeing of our own children can be secured only when the wellbeing of other peopleâs children is also secure. But to care for and about othersâ children is not just practical; it is also right.
Reference
Baumrind, D. (1971) âCurrent patterns of parental authorityâ, Developmental Psychology Monographs 4: 1â102.