Chapter One
How I Saved the Great Outdoors
People consider me the Teddy Roosevelt of Fox News. When I say āpeople,ā I mean me. Iām a conservationist who can live off the land . . . I just choose not to. I have a healthy respect for the environment. I have so much respect that I try to never go near it. Iāve weathered that storm and now appreciate modern technologies like air-conditioning. The phrase ācentral airā turns me on. A lot.
Roosevelt said, āThere is a delight in the hardy life of the open. There are no words that can tell the hidden spirit of the wilderness.ā Well, I have lived the hardy life of the open, and have found the words.
I had just turned eighteen. It was the summer before I went off to college, and all I wanted to do was hang out at the pool, play Ping-Pong, and get into trouble with my friends. But my liberal parents had a different idea.
As I sat in the living room opening birthday presents, I kept wondering what the big present was in the corner. My parents never showered me with expensive presents. In our house, presents were seen as āmaterialistic.ā In fact, expensive presents were borderline āhedonistic.ā Plus, they cost money, and my parents were frugal. The other kids who got expensive presents from their parents were āspoiled.ā My parents had different āvalues.ā I only got presents on my birthday and Christmas. Never in between. If I really wanted something badly, Iād have to pay my dad backāin cash or in chores. Every time I opened a present, it was either a new book, an old book, or a turn-of-the-century farm tool that youād find at a New England flea market. Dusty. Wooden. Always wooden. Some iron involved. A little rusty. Like a butter churner or a corkscrew. Extremely utilitarian. If I lived alone in a cabin with no electricity, my parents would be great gift givers. My mother would make a big deal about these presents, which she referred to as āfamily heirlooms.ā My mom would tell me how special this clay jug was to our ancestors. When I mentioned it smelled like gasoline, she announced that it was an āantiqueā that must be cherished and coveted. If I complained, my father would say, āYou canāt always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find you get what you need.ā Later on, I learned these were lyrics to a Rolling Stones song. Mick Jagger never wanted all that money, fame, and cocaine. He just needed it, I guess.
The worst presents my parents got me were āexperiences.ā Things you canāt touch, such as play tickets or museum passes. Every kid likes that, right? But the big box in the corner couldnāt be that. It was too big. You have to pretend you donāt see the big present sitting in the corner while you opened your smaller presents. Classic birthday-present-opening protocol. You canāt stare at it. You canāt even acknowledge it. You just open book after book after book, waiting for the big-ticket item in the corner. You have to act surprised when your parents hand you the big present, even though everyone in the room knew it was there the whole time.
āOh my gosh! What is this!? I thought we were all finished!ā Great performance by me.
I started tearing open the wrapping paper, then tearing open the box, getting closer and closer to the big eighteenth-birthday present. Finally, I see it. But confusion sets in.
āA duffle bag?ā
āHappy Birthday, Jesse! Weāre sending you to NOLS.ā
āWhatās NOLS?ā I asked. And why were they acting like luggage was so generous?
āItās the National Outdoor Leadership School. Youāre going rock climbing in Wyoming for the whole month of August!ā
I felt something huge building in the pit of my stomach.
āItās like the Outward Bound trip in Oregon you went on last summer, except itās more of a survival school. Youāll learn what it takes to be a leader. You leave in a few weeks! Arenāt you excited!?ā
I couldnāt speak. This was an experience. The worst kind of experience. My parents had been sending me to these wilderness adventure camps every summer for the past five years. The last three in Wyoming, Oregon, and finally Tennessee (in the Smoky Mountains) were brutal. I hated them. They said it ābuilds character.ā It built me into a character, all right. A character on TV.
The Oregon Outward Bound trip the summer before had been a nightmare. I got off on the wrong foot with my counselor and it was downhill from there. It was probably my fault. He warned me that Class V whitewater rafting was serious. He warned me that we had to properly balance all the bodies by weight from bow to stern. The rapids were intense, and we could easily be launched overboard. Iād done some pretty hard-core whitewater canoeing and kayaking the summer before . . . so I was cocky. I was also falling in love. That first day in Oregon Iād met a girl. Lauren. She was now in my raft. I threw my new $200 wraparound Ray-Ban sunglasses on and smiled across the seat at her.
āDonāt wear those sunglasses without croakies, Jesse!ā my counselor Dan lectured. āYouāll lose them in the water.ā
āIāll be fine Dan, donāt worry.ā I didnāt pack them. I didnāt like the look. It didnāt give off the Iād-rather-not-be-here-but-Iām-ready-for-love look.
We launched two rafts, seven in a raft. Weāre floating along. Iām sitting toward the back, behind Lauren, looking good in my new sunglasses. All of a suddenāboom!āIām bounced in the air, off the raft, and into the water.
āWe got a swimmer!!!ā Dan yells. I sense Dan relished yelling this as I bobbed along with the cold current.
He guides the raft toward me and reaches his hand out to pull me in. But I see my Ray-Bans in the water. I can easily grab them first and hop back on the raft, so I take a few strokes upstream. Dan sees what Iām doing, but he has to teach me a lesson. Right before I grasp the glasses, he yanks me back into the raft empty-handed.
āWhat did I tell you!?ā Dan screams at me. Iām soaking wet, and Iāve lost my new sunglasses. Itās also a little embarrassing to go overboard in front of your soon-to-be girlfriend.
Dan looks smug. āNext time, listen to me, Jesse.ā I can tell heās happy I was thrown overboard and lost my sunglasses. He wanted me to lose them. Because they looked really good on me.
Dan hates me already. Iām very good at sensing when someone hates me. Everyone loves me, so when someone hates me, itās very easy to notice. Usually, adults love me the most. The older they are, the stronger the affection. Because Iām so polite and charming and respectful. So for this counselor to hate me this passionately, this early in the trip, was concerning.
My sophomore summer camp counselor loved me. Mostly because I didnāt accuse him of being a Nazi. One of the other campers did. So I probably just looked good in comparison. This camper Jacob just flat-out didnāt want to be there, and he took extreme measures to get out.
When Iād arrived at base camp that last summer, I began to wonder if this was a camp for āat-riskā youth. My parents had just dropped me off. I was unpacking my canvas Abercrombie & Fitch bag, lining up my new REI hiking boots and fleece vestsālooking good as alwaysāwhen two other kids arrived on a bus without their parents. They carried big garbage bags over their shoulders, the kind you raked leaves into. They plopped the garbage bags down and unpacked sneakers, some mesh shorts, and some sweatshirts. And knives. Interesting. I hadnāt seen knives on the packing checklist weād received in the mail. It was a two-week hiking trip through the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee. What were the knives for?
Within the first hour, a lightning storm forced us to scatter. We tossed any metals we were carrying and crouched facedown under trees. Chavez, the one with a knife, was crouching next to me. āIām not getting rid of my blade,ā he whispered. āMe neither,ā I lied. I didnāt have a blade, but I didnāt want him to know I was unarmed. I did know that our chances of getting struck by lightning had just gone up. Big decision to make. Should I rat out Chavez for carrying a knife, so our chances of surviving the lightning storm would go down? Or does snitching on Chavez put me in greater danger later? I decided not to narc. Luckily, we survived the storm, and Chavez and I became friends.
We marched around carrying sixty-pound backpacks, almost got trapped spelunking through pitch-black caves (Chavez was a little hefty), and got stung by wasps. Jenny, a blonde with tattoos, broke her leg falling down a rocky trail. We had to build a stretcher out of tree limbs and carry her down a mountain to safety. She got medically evacuated by helicopter. A sad turn of events, but it gave Jacob an idea. Jacob wasnāt enjoying the food, the wasps, or the slap-boxing fights with Chavez. He found inspiration in Jennyās tragedy. Jacob began fake-falling down the trails to injure himself.
āI just need to sprain my ankle, then Iām outta here,ā he confided in me. After a few āfalls,ā our counselor was onto him and told him to knock it off. Our counselor, John, was a solid guy. Athlete, military background. His head was shaved. That gave Jacob another idea. Jacob was Jewish and started claiming John was ādiscriminatingā against him. Jacob began calling John a Nazi. This went on for days. Jacob hurtling himself against the rocky ground, grabbing his ankle in pain, John inspecting his ankle, telling Jacob it wasnāt sprained, and Jacob calling him a Nazi. Eventually Jacob wore John down. John hiked us miles out of the way until we found a cabin in a clearing. John and Jacob approached the cabin, made contact with the outside world somehow, and Jacob was taken back to base camp. His parents picked him up.
Iām sure Jacob and the camp settled their lawsuit, but I was thinking about filing a claim myself: child abuse based on malnourishment. The food on the trip was powder based. We just carried around sacks of powder. At meals, weād put the powder bags atop boiling water, and the steam would expand the powder bags into bigger bags of cornmeal or mashed potatoes or whatever the powder was derived from. But my personal pot system was damaged. So my water never really came to a full boil. So my bag of powder never expanded into the bigger, warmer, fluffier bag of starch-like āmealā that everyone ate. It barely grew into anything, just a semi-warm ball of undercooked yeast. When I complained to John that everyone else had a large feast and I was stuck with a golf-ball-sized ādinner,ā he didnāt care. āIt still has the same amount of nutrients as everyone elseās,ā he explained.
I starved in them thar hills. Was this a camp for disadvantaged youth and fat kids? Because everyone was hungry and losing weight. I was just the hungriest. As we walked the trails for hours every day, our entire conversation was about food. We all discussed in great detail our favorite meals: lasagna, fried chicken, bacon, tacos.
When the camp was over, my parents picked me up and said I looked āscary skinny.ā My mom asked what I wanted to eat. I said, āShrimp.ā They say you are what you eat, I guess. After a long drive, we stopped for peel-and-eat shrimp in a basket. I sat down and started gorging myself. After a few shrimp, I threw up. Apparently, because Iād been eating golf-ball-sized meals in the mountains, my stomach had shrunk significantly. Did my parents see this as a sign? That perhaps maybe we should stop shipping me off to survival camps for underprivileged kids with emotional and/or eating disorders? No. It got more extreme.
Back to Outward Bound in Oregonās Cascade Mountains. In Oregon, we ate what we caught. Spearfishing is challenging. Due to the refraction, you canāt stab the fish directly. It must be stabbed ahead of where it appears in the water. Itās very frustrating. For a starving seventeen-year-old with zero spearfishing experience, itās torture. My counselor Dan was tormenting us. Outward Bound felt like Gitmo for privileged white kids. I was kept away from my family and yelled at, and we prayed five times a day. For food.
Do you know what a solo is? I wish I didnāt. Your solo is when the counselor makes you survive in the wilderness alone for three days. Counselor Dan gave me three things: a book of matches, some rations, and a dirty look. Three days without any human contact. I missed Lauren. Weād really gotten closer after the sunglasses scandal. We paddled and hiked and stayed up late together. She was a great listener. She always nodded her head in agreement when I declared Dan hated me.
Our hiking teams had separated during our solos, so I wouldnāt see Lauren for a while. So I wrote her a love poem. That took about twenty minutes. Then I practiced handstands. Another twenty minutes. I thought a lot about why my parents were doing this to me. Theyād sent me to lacrosse camps and camps with sailing and tennis and wrestling. Camps I liked. But each summer, theyād gotten more extreme. Each summer, I played fewer sports at camp and went farther into the wilderness for longer periods of time. Was I being trained for a mission that Iād learn about later? Were my parents preppers? I had a lot of time to think about these things. I also thought a lot about mosquitoes. They were everywhere. The camp actually made you wear mosquito-netted helmets that tied around your entire head. Not one single inch of my skin was exposed. My skin was already sunburned because I didnāt listen to Dan. Heād told me to wear sunscreen, but I wanted to be tan for Lauren. I probably stank from not showering for weeks, but I had a nice bronze going.
My friends got high that summer. So did I. Eleven thousand feet high. After the solo, we hiked to the top of Mount Hood. It was snow-capped, and we used pickaxes to climb higher. Just a normal summer day building character with a massive backpack on my shoulders and a pickax in my hand.
How did we go to the bathroom on a snowcapped mountain range? Good question. We found privacy and squatted. We didnāt carry toilet paper because there was nowhere to dispose of it. So we wiped with what nature gave us. Atop this particular peak, nature gave us snow. Yes, we wiped with snow. In the woods, we wiped with leaves mostly. Sometimes stones. Or sticks. Anything with smooth surfaces. Occasionally pinecones. With the grain, never against the grain.
My face was now bright red. Not from fatigue, dehydration, or poop-snowball humiliation. Serious sunburn. Thatās when Dan whipped out some zinc oxide. The white gooey stuff. He ordered me to put it all over my face. I refused and only put it on my nose. I looked like a lifeguard from the early eighties. But at that elevation, the sun was reflecting off the snow and onto my face at ādangerous levels.ā When weād descended, my entire face was scorched. Blisters were forming. Dan was furious. He said something about āsecond-degree burns,ā and I started getting anxious because we were supposed to reunite with our full team (Lauren!) the next day. Of course, Dan had to ruin my reunion. He forced me to put the zinc oxide all over my entire face, not just the nose. I looked like a total idiot. Like my face was covered in frosting. But it got worse. While I was hiking, mosquitoes started sticking to my face. Lots of them. So by the time we reunited with Lauren, she was shocked. I was a gooey-headed monster with dozens of black mosquitoes stuck to my once-beautiful face. Some of the mosquitoes were still alive and could be seen struggling to unstick themselves from my face. Other campers had thought it was funny and had thrown some small twigs onto my zinc oxide face. It was a game to them. Pieces of bark, small berries, anything that would stick. A medley of ...