Why Temperament Matters

Guidance Strategies for Young Children

Cindy Croft

• Publisher: Redleaf Press
• Year: 2021
• ISBN:
  9781605546605
• Topic: Didattica
• Subtopic: Didattica per la prima infanzia

Why Temperament Matters: Guidance Strategies for Young Children addresses early childhood behavior guidance strategies related to children's specific temperament traits. There are nine temperament traits that influence a child's behavior: Activity Level, Distractibility, Persistence, Adaptability, Approach/Withdrawal, Intensity, Regularity, Sensory Awareness, Mood. All nine temperament traits are grouped into three major categories of personality: easy/flexible, feisty/spirited, and slow-to-warm-up/sensitive. This book provides specific ideas about how a child care provider can adjust the early childhood program and environment to meet the individual needs of each child's temperament. There is a specific emphasis on children who fall into the feisty/spirited or the slow-to-warm-up/sensitive categories because they are often the ones who are expelled with challenging behaviors. Why Temperament Matters explains where challenging behaviors may originate in temperament and provides strategies for meeting temperament needs that prevent or lessen challenging behaviors.

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Why Temperament Matters!

Every child care program has a unique blend of children, from the extroverted daredevil to the quiet teacher pleaser. Our classrooms reflect the world around us. The diversity of personalities is what makes early education challenging and fun at the same time, while teachers say this is the job they love!

What makes every child so unique? No matter the size of a child care program, there will be children who want to be the center of attention and those who prefer to quietly play in the reading nook. Children come into this world with their own wiring that is influenced partly by genetics and partly by the environment around them. We refer to all the characteristics that make up a child’s personality as her temperament. Temperament is the predisposition we are all born with, and it colors the way we react to the world around us. My definition is “the characteristic way that the individual experiences and responds to the internal and external environment” (Croft 2007, 43). Temperament is innate and part of who we are from birth.

Because temperament is present at birth, an infant will show personality characteristics that become recognizable as part of her overall nature as she grows. For example, an infant might be resistant to a sleeping schedule in her early weeks. A few years later, that same preschooler may have difficulty in child care when snacktime comes and she isn’t hungry for another half hour. The infant’s emerging personality can be seen as a small seed, and nurturing and support from her primary caregiver helps the child grow successfully into the unique person she was born to be.

Why does temperament matter to you as an early educator? For one thing, everyone has temperament traits. Every child you care for comes to you with different combinations of nine temperament traits. The temperament traits a child has influence every part of her child care day, from when she arrives, to lunch, to when she goes home at the end of the day. For instance, if a child is hungry before everyone else in the class, hunger may make her irritable and unwilling to share with a friend. Or if she has difficulty persisting in a table activity, she may become disruptive in order to make a change.

While everyone else is napping or lying quietly on their mats, Lionel can’t stop fidgeting and moving his feet around. He just has to touch the friend lying next to him. His little body doesn’t slow down the way others’ bodies do at quiet time.

As educators and providers, the more you know about an individual child’s temperament traits, the better equipped you are to adapt the environment to accommodate her physical, behavioral, and learning needs. The purpose of this book is to explain how each of the nine temperament traits can affect a child’s behavior in child care and offer strategies for building success for both children and providers. Building a sense of mastery for everyone in the classroom promotes a positive environment!

Understanding Temperament Traits

Broadly speaking, the components that make up the personality and disposition of children and adults is known as temperament. For instance, a child’s personality might be energetic and outgoing, with temperament traits like high activity level and high approach. The individual nine temperaments go together to give each person their unique personality. We will talk in more depth about temperament traits in the next section. It is sometimes thought that temperament is changeable over time, but in fact it is fairly stable from infancy into adulthood. A child with high intensity will not become a child who shows little or no reaction to his world, but that child can learn skills in early childhood to help regulate some of his reactions. Temperament is influenced by environment, which is why the early education setting plays an important role in how temperament manifests in child care. One example of this is a child care setting that uses muted colors, dims the lights at times, and puts quiet centers next to other quiet centers. These calming influences help a child who can be overstimulated by a noisy or active environment, allowing her to stay on a more even keel.

There are other influences on temperament as well, such as stressors in a child’s life that cause anxiousness in a child who might otherwise be adaptable. Our culture tends to view boys as more active and girls as more social, but these traits in individual children have more to do with genetics than culture or gender. Social relationships will have some influence on behaviors, but they will not fundamentally alter a temperament type. For instance, two friends who are working on a project together will work longer if one of them has higher persistence. It doesn’t mean the other child will stay until the end, but she may remain longer than if she had been at the task alone.

Temperament is made up of nine specific traits first categorized in the 1970s by Stella Chess and her husband, Alexander Thomas, psychiatrists who studied child development over a period of several years, particularly temperament and environment. In their research, they measured each trait as high, low, or somewhere in the middle on a continuum on a temperament sorter. Sorters are a way to sequence the traits in an order. An example of a temperament sorter is found later in this chapter. Using a sorter helps you determine where you think a particular child’s temperament traits tend to land on the continuum.

The Nine Temperament Traits

When you examine all the temperament traits together, you see that they form a unique picture of each child with his own way of interacting with his environment. These are the nine traits:

1. Activity level is the overall physical energy a child uses in daily activities. How active is the child from an early age? Does he tend to be very busy most of the time or tend toward quiet activities? Was he a wiggly baby or one that nestled in and liked to be swaddled?

2. Distractibility refers to how difficult or easy it is for a child to concentrate without being sidetracked. How well does he pay attention if he’s not particularly interested? Can his attention be diverted easily, or does he stay concentrated on a task? Does he want you to read every page of the book and notice if you skip any parts of it?

3. Persistence describes a child’s ability to stick with a task in the face of distractions, interruptions, or frustration. Does the child stay with something he doesn’t really like to do? If it becomes difficult, does he stay with it or move to the next game? Will he work on a challenging puzzle until he figures it out?

4. Adaptability is about how easily a child adjusts to changes in situations or people. How does the child deal with transitions or changes in routine? Does he roll with it or make a fuss when it is time to move to a new activity? As an infant, did he go with the flow no matter what was happening? Or did he only sleep in his own bed with his own blankets?

5. Approach/withdrawal is about a child’s first reaction to new situations or people. What is the child’s initial response to newness? What is his reaction to new foods, places, activities, people, and clothes? Does he eagerly approach a new friend or tend toward hesitancy about new people? Does she hold back until she is sure about something?

6. Intensity refers to the energy a child uses to respond or react. How loud is the child, whether happy or unhappy? How much energy does he use to express joy, anger, or frustration? As an infant, was he hard to soothe and easily agitated?

7. Regularity is about the predictability of the child in his patterns of sleep, appetite, or bodily functions. Does he usually sleep at the same time each day, or is his napping time all over the place and unpredictable?

8. Sensory threshold is related to how sensitive a child is to her physical surroundings. How does the child react to sensory stimulation: noise, light, colors, smells, pain, tastes, and textures in clothing and food? Is he overstimulated or bothered by different sensations? Or does he show little reaction to sensory stimulation like a loud noise?

9. Mood is a child’s general tendency to react positively or negatively to the world around him. What is the child’s predominant mood? Is he more generally positive or negative?

Challenges to Child Care Providers

Child developmentalists know that this natural composition of temperament traits is important because it can influence the trajectory of a child’s ongoing positive social-emotional development through her relationship with a primary caregiver. For instance, a child who displays temperament traits that might be perceived as challenging, such as high activity level, could receive fewer positive interactions and more negative reactions from her caregiver. When this happens, the child may feel like there is something wrong with who she is because she senses caregivers’ disapproval to her general busyness.

If a child persistently feels like she is being rejected by her provider or by peers, she could begin a downward spiral that continues to lower her sense of worth and sets a pattern for negative behaviors. The challenging behaviors will then continue to negatively impact interactions with her teachers, reinforcing the negative view she has of herself.

Since Albert gets in trouble so much anyway, what is the point of trying to do what the teacher says? He might as well see if he can get sent to the director’s office because at least when he is there, she lets him feed the fish.

Conversely, if a child is highly approachable, her caregiver may smile at her frequently and give her positive encouragement for her positive attitude. The child can internalize this as “I must be okay because my teacher really likes me.” For this child, the stage is being set for a positive future.

Temperament Ranges and Clusters

The nine temperament traits above are further classified as having a range and presenting in a cluster of similar traits. Each temperament trait as a stand-alone characteristic has dimensions of impact on a child that we refer to as a “range,” or area of variation. While range speaks to each individual trait, clusters refer to the traits that have characteristics in common or are related in range of high or low impact. In this way, we can better understand the whole nature of a child’s personality expressed through their behaviors.

Temperament Ranges

The impact of a particular temperament trait on a child’s behavior can depend on what we refer to as its “range.” Temperament range indicates whether the trait is experienced by the child with a high impact or low impact or even somewhere in the middle. For instance, if a child is on the high side of intensity, then we will see behaviors that represent strong self-expression, like loud talking and laughing, or big gestures of unhappiness or joy. He might throw himself on the ground with anger or scream with delight.

Ruby bangs her cup on the table when she puts it down and marches instead of walking. Everything she does, she does BIG. Sometimes her peers aren’t sure how to react to her because she can seem scary to them when she shouts or screams. Even when she is happy, she laughs louder than anyone else in the room.

If a child is low in how he expresses intensity, we may see behaviors that are not reactive in the way we would typically expect from a given age range. For instance, a child with low intensity might ignore a friend who hollers at him to hand over the red fire engine. He might react with little energy to a birthday surprise that would make most other children very excited. His emotions are subdued even if he is frustrated or angry.

Gil watches the magician do a magic trick in front of him but doesn’t seem surprised when the toy reappears in the box. He turns away and starts to play with a squishy ball in his pocket.

There is no wrong or right, good or bad in temperament or range; it is simply the way a child is naturally wired to react based on that temperament trait. As we will see in chapters 3 through 11, the child’s reactions can result in behaviors that are challenging unless there is guidance from adults and an environment that supports positive behaviors.

Temperament Clusters

Temperament clusters or types are groupings of dominant temperament traits. Dominant traits are the ones that override the other dispositions of a child. Every child has all nine temperament traits, and each one has those traits clustered in some meaningful way. Thomas and Chess were the first to identify these personality types based on infants they were observing in a long-term study (Allen and Cowdery 2012). They noticed through the infant’s behaviors a tendency for temperament traits to cluster or group depending on high impact, low impact, or middle-range impact. This is how they determined the three basic temperament types of classifications we still use today:

• Difficult (sometimes described as feisty or active)

• Easy (sometimes described as flexible or easygoing)

• Slow to warm up (sometimes described as fearful)

Chess and Thomas found that flexible or easy babies tended to be active but not to a degree that it was problematic for adults to care for them. They also found that the easy baby had calmer reactions w...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Title Page
• Copyright
• Contents
• Acknowledgments
• Introduction
• Chapter 1: Why Temperament Matters!
• Chapter 2: Guiding through Each Child’s Strengths
• Chapter 3: Activity Level—The Need for Speed
• Chapter 4: Distractibility—Paying Too Much Attention or No Attention at All
• Chapter 5: Persistence—Patient or Stubborn
• Chapter 6: Adaptability—Resisting or Embracing Change
• Chapter 7: Approach/Withdrawal—Quick to Join or Wait and See
• Chapter 8: Intensity—Use Your Quiet Voice
• Chapter 9: Regularity—How Does My Engine Run?
• Chapter 10: Sensory Awareness—Too Hot, Too Cold, or Just Right
• Chapter 11: Mood—Sunny or Cloudy Day
• Chapter 12: Guidance Strategies for Temperament Types—Putting the Pieces Together!
• References
• Resources
• Index