Summary
Need to Know: This will be a different sort of self-help book. Itâs chatty instead of churchy, filled with quirky anecdotes and more than a few swear words. But its goal is the same as the others. It will help you achieve your best and most joyous life.
From birth, we are taught to live our lives based on false beliefs passed down throughout generations and imposed upon us by society. Your subconscious is where these beliefs live. Your conscious mind develops after puberty, but by then your subconscious beliefs have already solidified. They control the decision-making frontal lobeâin other words, your conscious brain. These false beliefs control the way youâre living your life.
The fact that subconscious thoughts are, well, subconscious is part of the problem. You may not even know you have them. Thatâs why the first step in getting rid of false beliefs is to recognize that they exist, and figure out what they are. Once you can change these thoughts, you can change your reality.
Need to Know: Sincero likens a subconscious hang-up to a dead animal under your porchâuntil you find it and dispose of it, youâll never be able to get rid of the stench.
Chapter 2: The G Word
Sincero uses many terms for âGod.â She refers to a higher power as the Universe, the Vortex, the Spirit, the Mother Lode, and Source Energy, and urges you to use whatever words youâre comfortable with. But itâs got to be thereâshe says your road to changing your life will be much harder without a belief in the Spirit. According to Sincero, everything in the Universe vibrates at a certain energy or frequency. People and things with high frequencies are closely connected to the Source Energy. Vibrations attract like vibrations, so you need to raise your frequency to match the frequencies of your desires. When you are living a high frequency lifestyle, you can harness your own capability of creating the reality you want. Your frequency is high when youâre truly aware that what you want is already available to you.
Need to Know: The trick is to keep believing in the Spirit even when things are tough. If you donât, it will be like trying to fly in a dream the moment you realize you canât flyâand you plummet to the ground.
Chapter 3: Present as a Pigeon
You are living in an incredible world, where every single thing about life is a miracle. From the cosmic truths of the Universe to the simple fact that you can take air into your lungs, itâs all miraculous. But you probably donât think about that much. In fact, you probably spend a lot of time worrying about whatâs coming and regretting whatâs already happened. Sincero wants you to stop all that and focus on being present. When you are present in the moment, you can connect to the Source EnergyâAnd only then, you can realize that the things you want already exist.
Need to Know: If youâre busy being anxious about the future and depressed about the past, you wonât notice all of the possibilities that surround you.
Chapter 4: The Big Snooze
The Big Snooze, or BS for short, is Sinceroâs term for all the stuff thatâs keeping you from being a badass. Itâs your subconscious and all of the false beliefs youâre carrying around. You need to wake up from the BS to achieve your desires. Unfortunately, BS is fear-based and waking up from it is hard. Once you awake, you might encounter problem after problemâthe process can be tumultuous, and sometimes requires cutting ties with people and things that you love. But you must power through and not give up on your goals. It will be difficult, scary, and people might not understand, but itâs necessary if you really want to change your life.
Need to Know: Sincero compares waking from the BS to going through detoxâit will be awful at first, as you get all of the toxins out of your system. But a whole ne...