I LIKE IT WHEN I can be done with something. Like a knitted earwarmer, like winter, spring, summer, fall. Even like Epsilonās career. I like to get things over with. But impatience has consequences. That time when Epsilon gave me an orchid for my birthday. I didnāt really want an orchid. I never got the point of flowers, theyāre just going to wither and die. What I actually wanted was for Epsilon to retire.
āBut I need a refuge, away from all the . . .āāfor a second I thought he was going to say ātogetherness,ā but instead he said ānakedness.ā āDoes that mean me?ā I asked. āIām not naming any names,ā he said.
So I undressed for the orchid instead, and soon the buds began to blossom, little pink flowers were springing out everywhere. āI wish you had the same effect on me,ā Epsilon said.
The directions that came with the orchid said to prune the flowers after they wilt, then theyād revive in six months. First, though, the flowers had to die. So I watched and waited and finally I couldnāt stand it any longer. Time to be done, I told myself, and then I pruned the plant down to its skinny, bare stalks.
āWhat happened here?ā Epsilon asked when he came home from work. āI did what I had to do,ā I said. āThe flowers wouldnāt wither. But donāt worry. There will be flowers again in six months, just in time for fall. If Iād waited any longer, we would have risked not having flowers until winter.ā
But fall came and went, and then winter, and then spring, the flowers didnāt return, the orchid was dead, and for my next birthday I got a throw pillow.
Now that Iām lying in bed, Iām the very opposite of impatient. Iām wishing I could save what little I have left of my life until I know exactly what to do with it. For that to happen Iād have to lock myself in a freezer, but all weāve got is the small one in the refrigerator. I can hear people coming home from work, theyāre thinking about their dinners, and here I am in bed, and the whole thing reminds me of a book I once read.
Maybe I should turn off the lights. Not that it matters, the man with the scythe can see in the dark, heāll find me no matter what. What will it be? My legs? My arms? Iām wondering. I wiggle my fingers and toes. The left side of my bodyās numb. The right side too. Itāll probably be my heart. Before Epsilon, my heart was like a grape, and now itās like a raisin. Or maybe my shriveled tonsils? You canāt trust those things.
It may take a long time before anyone realizes Iāve died. I read about a Chinese man who was dead in his apartment for twenty years, they could tell from the date on the newspaper on the kitchen table, and when they found him he was just a skeleton in pajamas. Iāll wind up a skeleton in pajamas too. But, Iāll start to smell before that, and first the neighbors will think itās the Pakistanis on the first floor, but when the Pakistanis start complaining too, someone will remember the little old lady on the third floor. āBut didnāt she get shot dead during the war?ā theyāll ask. āNo,ā June, my next-door neighbor, will tell them. āI saw her last Christmas. Time to call emergency.ā
When I was a child, I always dreamed of being taken away by an ambulance, and when there was one nearby, Iād cross my fingers and whisper: āLet it be me, let it be me,ā but it never was me, the ambulances were always moving away from me, I could tell by the sirens. Now I hear ambulance sirens in the distance again, they should be coming to get me because Iām wearing clean underwear and will be dying soon. But no, thereās someone else in the ambulance instead, someone whoās no longer responsible for their own destiny.
Itās getting dark, Iām trying to concentrate on something useful, and the only thing that matters now is to figure out what my last words will be. āThe probability that weāre going to die is smaller than Īµ, if Īµ equals a microscopically small quantity,ā I told Epsilon. It wasnāt like me to say something like that. I wish Iād said something different.
I want to say something meaningful, make my last words rhyme, so I lay awake the whole night trying to think up something appropriate. I know Iāll never get out of bed again. But then morning comes and I feel so hungry.
Epsilon says that, statistically speaking, a given person will probably die in bed.
Maybe I should get up now.
LIVE LIFE. Seize the day. Iām standing next to my bed, but I donāt know how to seize my day. Finally, I decide to do what I always do: read the obituaries.
But first I head for the bathroom. Iām still wearing the black dress from the day before, and from many days before that. Yesterday my dress was especially black. Epsilon is a short man, so I donāt know why the bathroom mirror is hung so high. Epsilon says heās happy with it because he just needs to see where to part his hair. My backās so bent I canāt see anything. I stretch myself and then putter up to the counter on the tips of my toes. Now I can see the upper half of my face in the mirror, like a nixie lurking with half its head sticking out of water, to lure you in. Itās strange to think the half-face in the mirror is me. I look straight into my eyes. Why bother with appearances when no oneās looking? I go out into the hall to get the newspaper.
Itās possible that my next-door neighbors, June and his mother, know I exist. Even if they do, they wonāt miss me when Iām gone. Theyāre the only ones besides Epsilon and me whoāve lived here since the building was first put up, and I remember June from when he was a little boy. His real name is Rune, but his mother canāt pronounce the letter r. It was probably his father who came up with the name because he had a special interest in old languages. Later, he got interested in accountants. Juneās mother is one of the few people Iāve ever been in the habit of greeting regularly. This was back when we first moved in and I didnāt know any better. āHello,ā Iād say every time we passed in the hall. And since we passed each other several times a day, the routine got awkward pretty quickly. In the morning it was fine, but then we might see each other when she was coming up from the cellar and I was appearing out of the blue. āHello.ā A couple of hours would go by and then we might run into each other outside the laundry room. Each time, Iād say āhow are you?ā and force myself to smile. When I took garbage to the chute at night and she was hovering around on some mysterious errand, Iād pretend I had bad night vision and couldnāt see her. Iād feel my way along the wall in the dimly lit hallway, and the next morning the whole painful routine would start again. It was a relief when her husband left her for the accountant on the floor below and she stopped going out. June was still a kid, and suddenly he was forced to run all the household errands himself, so maybe it isnāt surprising that he grew into an unlikable adult. He never said hello when he saw Epsilon and me, and I didnāt say hello either. So after the deaf woman moved out of the apartment building, I left all other greetings to Epsilon. āMorning,ā Epsilon would say and June would ignore him, except the one time he gave us the finger. āHow fun,ā Epsilon said. He wasnāt trying to be ironic, Epsilon is never ironic. āThatās a new one. Probably something he picked up in the Boy Scouts.ā
Sometimes June or his mother peeks out their door at the very moment I do, to grab their newspaper off the mat, and itās uncomfortable every time.
I sit down at the kitchen table with my toast. I open the newspaper at random pages until Iām surprised by what Iām looking for. Whenever I buy a bun at the bakery, I always eat the custard in the middle first, and I approach a newspaper in the same way. The list of bankruptcies are like the coconut and the obituaries are the creamy filling. Today Iām glad my name isnāt there. Still, an obituary would be proof of my existence, and I wonder if I should send in my own obituary and tell the newspaper to hold on to it and print it when the time is right. I used to read the obituaries to gloat over all the people Iād outlived, but now I donāt think it matters, we all live for just a moment anyway.
Weāll keep you in our secret hearts, and hold you there so tight, Youāll dwell in loving memory, a dearly cherished light.
Wouldnāt it be nice if someone remembered how pretty and smart and funny I was, maybe if Iād had children they wouldāve inherited my talents, whatever those are, and my wisdom couldāve been passed on to the next generation: āRemember to exhale gently in order to puff out your lips when youāre being photographed, my dear daughter.ā But nature only cares about preserving and perpetuating the species, it couldnāt care less about individuals, and the fact is that nature actually prefers for individuals to live as briefly as possible, so that new generations can take over faster and evolution can speed up, which is an advantage in the struggle for existence.
āThe laws of nature are in direct conflict with our individual interests,ā Epsilon said. āIsnāt that what Iāve always told you?ā I asked him. Ever since Stein died, Epsilon had his nose buried in a book. āWhat are you reading?ā I asked. āIām reading what Schopenhauer has to say about death,ā Epsilon said. āIām trying to make peace with the fact that Steinās gone.ā āBut youāre religious,ā I said. āNo, Iām not,ā Epsilon said. āOh. So youāre hoping to find some other, enduring meaning for Stein?ā I asked. Epsilon nodded. āSomething like that.ā āDoes Schopenhauer have anything useful to say?ā I asked. āWell, the part where he says that Stein will continue on as an expression of the worldās will seems a bit much,ā Epsilon said, ābut the thought that heāll live on in the species of Dog, there may be something to that.ā āSo if I imagine a dog in a garden a thousand years ago, standing there eating grass as though this is the solution to all its problems, and then a dog standing there eating grass today, it would in a way be the same dog? Thatās not as comforting as you might think. Stein was Stein, after all.ā āSchopenhauer claims you have to overcome the idea of Stein as an individual,ā Epsilon said, āyou have to start identifying him with the totality, because as a part of the totality heāll live on as Dog for a very long time.ā
Perhaps I should stop seeing myself as an individual and start identifying myself with the totality, but I just canāt do that, Iām about as far away from the totality as you can get. But maybe itās not too late. I let myself imagine that someone might notice me on the way to the store. But what would I do if that happened, probably nothing, and whoever it is might be disappointed by what they see. Iāve never heard of anyone being impressed by nothing, after all, and I donāt like to disappoint people.
I have to look through the peephole for a long time before I go out. But Iām not complaining. Itās worse for those who have monocles because their vision is going. I wait until all the neighbors on my floor and the floors above have gone out, and the outer door on the first floor has closed a few times, and then I can go out too. I donāt shop on the weekends, when too many people are out and about, and Epsilon is at home. I creep down the stairway, then hurry past the neighborsā doors and mailboxes. One time my name was on a mail-order catalogue and I almost bought āthe hilarious, one-of-a-kind plastic moose head that sings when you move, guaranteed to make you laugh for years and years to come.ā But Epsilon prevented it.
When I step outside, I force myself to look up. Nice sun, I think, before looking down at the trash blowing around in the gutter. Itās been a month since the superintendentās obituary appeared in the newspaper.
āHe died an unnatural death,ā I said. āSorry to hear that,ā Epsilon said, but he seemed more upset that that stubborn zipper on his jacket was stuck. āHe should still be glad that he reached the average life span,ā I said.
But now Iām not so sure. Iām not sure of anything anymore. The courtyard of our building is a mess, and even though Iāve seen a lot of things in my time, Iām still surprised to find a half-eaten cupcake in a hedge.
There are two young mothers with baby carriages sitting on the grass in front of the building, and even though Iām staring at the asphalt less than usual today, they donāt notice me, which is probably just as well, since I saw on TV that people donāt say āhelloā anymore, but instead ask āwhatās up?ā and I just wouldnāt feel comfortable with that.
I follow the sidewalk past the large strip of grass between the buildings and then turn onto the gravel path leading between a line of trees, where the Ćstmarka forest ends, and then thereās just fifty meters or so until I come out on the other side. After that, I walk along the hill past the church, which looks more like a swimming hall, and head for the grocery store. Iām walking pretty fast, but I donāt sweat anymore these days.
Thereās a senior center over the bridge behind the grocery store, but I pretend itās a motorcycle club or a dance hall or something I wouldnāt care about anyway. I took dance lessons when I was twelve. Everyone wanted to dance with the lovely Ellisiv, the other kids lined up and took turns. And sometimes, when they least expected it, sheād tip her wheelchair back a little to startle them. I always danced alone. For half an hour Iād be the girl and for the other half hour Iād be the boy.
Itās cooler inside the grocery store than it is outside. Theyāve only just opened. Actually, I prefer it when there are other customers in here, so I donāt attract attention. I usually buy what other people buy, itās nice to have boiled cod for dinner if the woman in front of me at the checkout is also having boiled cod. āWeāre not the only ones eating cod today,ā I say to Epsilon, knowing he appreciates this.
I pick a few apples from the fruit display. Ever since Chernobyl, I always peel Epsilonās apples so his brain wonāt be affected by any trace of radioactivity. My own apples I just buff on my skirt. I find the cheese, Epsilon likes brown gjetost. I prefer strawberry jam, but jam jars are impossible to open. And when it comes to jars, Epsilon is no help at all. I also like pickles. Then I realize that I could ask an employee to open the jar for me, and I could just screw the lid back on lightly for the trip home, and so I find the jam aisle. There they are: jar upon jar, stretching from floor to ceiling, and even when I put my hands on my hips and lean back, I canāt see to the top of the shelf. They all look like they have a screw lid, though, so I just pick one at random.
Iām frustrated because both of the storeās employees are standing at their checkout counters, and Iām the only customer in the store. I donāt want either of them t...