College Planning for Gifted Students

Choosing and Getting Into the Right College (Updated ed.)

Sandra L. Berger

• Publisher: Routledge
• Year: 2021
• ISBN:
  9781000491173
• Edition: 4
• Topic: Education
• Subtopic: Education General

College Planning for Gifted Students: Choosing and Getting Into the Right College is a must-have for any gifted or advanced learner planning to attend college. Sandra Berger, a nationally recognized expert on college and career planning for gifted students, provides a hands-on, practical guide to college planning in this updated edition of the best-selling College Planning for Gifted Students. Berger focuses specifically on helping gifted students discover who they are and how that discovery corresponds to the perfect postsecondary endeavor. The author also provides useful, practical advice for writing college application essays, requesting recommendation letters, visiting colleges, and acing the college entrance interview. Throughout the book, helpful timelines and checklists are provided to give students and their parents, teachers, and counselors assistance in planning for and choosing the right college. Grades 9-12

1 COLLEGE PLANNING

DOI: 10.4324/9781003233725-1

College planning is a major event in the lives of many families. Some parents dress their infants in tiny clothing bearing their alma mater's colors and mascots, certain that someday, their child will follow in their footsteps. Other families claim to "bleed" maroon, burnt orange, navy blue and gold, or crimson red, with generations of family members attending the same university. Smartphones are enclosed in a case bearing the logo of the owner's alma mater. Across the nation, longtime rivalries are upheld during football and basketball season and carried over to friendly game day disputes between siblings, friends, or neighbors who chose to attend competing universities. Only in America is the decal from almost any college displayed proudly on the rear window of the family car.

The hopes and dreams of many American families are connected to a college education. We are surrounded by reminders of higher education—everything from ads for college financing to slick TV descriptions of the competing universities during halftime at the fall football games. In the 21st century, attending college is part of the American success story.

High school students and their parents often have strong feelings about attending or not attending college, but once the decision is made to go, choosing the right college becomes a different matter altogether. The path from secondary to higher education is poorly marked. Students surveyed for this book said that trying to select a college is confusing, because there is no sound basis for making a decision. They felt overwhelmed by the amount of e-mail they received from colleges each day featuring sports, special programs, electronic media centers, and stately granite buildings set on idyllic grassy knolls or downtown in bustling cities. Each brochure seems to say, "Choose me!" without giving any clues as to what would be required to actually attend that school. Is it any wonder that students feel overwhelmed? The goal has been set with no instructions on how to achieve it. Adding to the confusion, sharply rising college costs, enrollments, and student debt loads have touched off a debate about the role of higher education in the 21st century (Cohn, 2011) and whether it is "worth" the money.

Why go to college? Maybe a better question is, "What do you want to do for the rest of your life?" Education, career choices, and future earnings are all related to this decision. Do students today believe that they are preparing for college, or for life, or both? And what do we as their parents and teachers believe (Webb, 2013b)? In 1997, President Clinton referred to education as "the fault line between those who will prosper in the new economy and those who will not" (para. 1). His words are truer today than ever before.

The typical adult with a bachelor's degree (but no further education) will earn $1.42 million over a 40-year career, compared with $770,000 for a typical high school graduate. That $650,000 difference narrows somewhat, to $550,000, after factoring in the expenses of going to college and the 4 years of potential earnings that college graduates give up while they are in school (Cohn, 2011, 2013).

The College Board reported that in its most recent survey of college pricing, a "moderate" college budget for an in-state public college for the 2012-2013 academic year averaged $22,261. A moderate budget at a private college averaged $43,289 (Baum & Ma, 2013). The total price of a college education depends on how long a student is enrolled before completing a degree. Many students spend more than 4 years earning a bachelor's degree. Average time to degree is longer in public than in private nonprofit institutions.

The statistics remain consistent as the years go by and the cost of college increases. Yet, in a 2011 survey conducted by the Pew Research Center, a majority of Americans (57%) said the higher education system in the United States fails to provide students with good value for the money they and their families spend. An even larger majority—75%—said college is too expensive for most Americans to afford (Cohn, 2011, 2013).

We all have heard about people who became highly successful without a college education, but they are in the minority. We know who they are because their unusual achievement stands out. People without an education and job-related skills have a more difficult time finding work because they are competing against those who have more training. Further, if parents do not have a college education, the chances are that their children also will not attend college, primarily because their children never receive practical advice on applying to and attending college (Plank & Jordan, 2001). The reverse is also true: If you went to college, your children are more than twice as likely to attend.

A new report from the National Student Clearinghouse Research Center dug deeper into graduation rates. It found that of the 1.9 million students enrolled for the first time in all degree-granting institutions in fall 2006, just more than half of them (54.1 percent) had graduated within 6 years. Another 16.1% were still enrolled in some sort of postsecondary program after 6 years, and 29.8% had dropped out altogether (Rampell, 2013). Fewer than six in 10 first-time college students finish 4-year degrees within 6 years (Rampell, 2013; Stengel, 2012).

Almost half of those who never enrolled or dropped out said college wasn't for them because they wanted to work and make money. Almost as many said they couldn't afford college. Yet, by age 33, according to the College Board, the typical college graduate has earned enough to compensate for the cost of attending a 4-year public college or university, and has made up for earnings passed up during the college years (Baum & Ma, 2013; Baum & Payea, 2004).

Some benefits of a college education are subtle, but real. The acquisition of knowledge is a very personal thing. People who go to college use the knowledge they acquire for the rest of their lives, and will continue to expand their knowledge and skills, express their thoughts more clearly in speech and in writing, grasp abstract concepts and theories, and increase their understanding of the world and community. College is likely to promote a love of learning in people as a result of developing new interests and passions.

Until people go away to college, their friends are acquired largely by circumstance from among their neighbors, the children they associate with in the first 12 grades of school, athletics teammates, religious education classmates, and other settings. Going away to college exposes an individual to a diverse group of people—some good, some not so good—and at a minimum, it provides more options from which to choose. The world is a rich place, full of places and experiences that can hardly be imagined by a person who never leaves his or her hometown. College exposes us to people from different national, ethnic, and religious groups, to different social and political ideas, to different income levels or ways of life, and even different ways of learning or absorbing information. A college education gives us courage to try new things, fosters our imagination to create new things, and gives us the freedom to think critically about everything we will ever see or hear in our lifetimes.

There are more than 4,000 colleges and universities (including all types) in the United States. Choosing from among them is a complex task. Some students, particularly those who are gifted, are concerned about college and begin planning for it as early as elementary school. That being said, there are still many high school students who approach college planning and selection with less thought than they give to purchasing a video game or a new item of clothing. Lacking a plan, they may make arbitrary decisions based on inadequate information culled from a website, friend, or relative, simply because they do not know how to define the personal criteria needed to make college and career decisions. Far too many teenagers are simply not aware of how colleges differ, or how they can match their individual needs, wants, and desires with what a particular college may have to offer.

For many high school students, college planning is a process that begins and ends arbitrarily and abruptly, without reflection. This process typically begins with participation in the Preliminary SAT®/National Merit Scholarship Qualifying Test (PSAT/NMSQT) during 11th grade, and ends with the receipt of acceptance or rejection letters from the schools to which the student applied. Between the two milestones—the PSAT and letters of acceptance—students must select colleges they want to attend, complete a number of standardized achievement tests, and submit their applications. For many, the information they gather during the 11th and 12th grade is deemed sufficient to make decisions. For gifted, highly creative, or high-achieving students, however, a much longer process is necessary.

Gifted students should be concerned about and begin planning for college as early as the seventh grade, although many think about it earlier. They tend to make short mental lists that swing from one extreme to another: from "brand name" colleges, such as Harvard, Yale, Princeton, and Stanford, to popular state or community institutions. Their angst increases with each school year, building toward an event such as taking the PSAT, SAT, or ACT test. For gifted students, college planning should be one step in a life development process that takes place between seventh and 12th grade. This process begins in early childhood with your child's self-awareness and ends with matching his or her needs with college offerings. Between those two points, you can expect your child to acquire many new skills and experiences, and grow with each activity. As your child grows in experience and self-awareness, he will be increasingly able to plan his future based on his talents, skills, interests, needs, values, and passions.

This guide is for parents and adolescents in the midst of the complex process of college and career planning. Parents, much of the book will speak to your concerns as you work with your child, but some sections are meant to be used by your child, and are therefore addressed to the student. Throughout the book you will find charts and checklists that will help you and your teen gradually come closer to selecting a list of appropriate colleges. While you and your child go through some of the exercises in the book, there are several things to keep in mind:

• » There is no such thing as the perfect school. The college experience, like life, is a series of trade-offs. Most students should be able to identify several different types of schools appropriate for them. This does not mean that they would have identical experiences at each school, only that their experiences would be equally positive.
• » The path from point A, knowing oneself, to point B, a satisfying college experience, does not necessarily follow a smooth progression. Adolescents develop intellectually, socially, and emotionally at inconsistent rates. They face the challenge of making a critical decision on college selection at a point in their lives when they have not finished "becoming themselves." Parents, teachers, and counselors should encourage students to think of college selection as the first step in what may ultimately be a multistep process. For example, the college environment suitable for a student's freshman and sophomore years may be unacceptable for the final 2 years, because the student—not the college—has changed. In such a case, transferring to another college is a realistic and positive option. This is an important point for the student who wants to attend a highly selective school, but does not have the qualifications to do so. A year at a less selective school may be followed by a transfer to the original school of choice if the student uses that year to prove that he or she is capable of working at a challenging level
• » The most selective colleges receive more than 10 applications for every freshman vacancy. Seven of the eight colleges and universities that make up the Ivy League have lowered their acceptance rates since 2012. In 2013, the acceptance rate for the "Ivies" ranged from a low of 5% to a high of 8%. According to The New York Times, "the trend to tiptoe toward increased selectivity seems to hold true whether the institution received more or fewer applications than last year" (Abrams, 2013b, para. 2). College selectivity is the "application-to-admit ratio," or the number of students admitted compared to the number of students who applied. The degree of selectivity at a school can change from year to year, depending on the number of students applying for admission and the number of slots the college has available. A large percentage of these applicants are highly qualified. Keep in mind that the admission rates at Ivy League and other highly selective institutions are exceptions to the norm; there are more than 2,000 four-year colleges and universities in the United States. If your adolescent aspires to a highly selective college, you can expect a highly competitive application review. Because your student's credentials will be examined so carefully and critically, knowing what he or she is up against before you begin can help make the college search more realistic.

Many college planning guides provide slick marketing tips for college applicants. But, unless the match between your child's needs and interests and the school's offering is truly a good one—and there is no way of knowing that without going through the kinds of activities proposed in this guide—students may be disappointed.

Students who can ask and begin to answer questions about themselves are on the road to developing self-awareness. When they can begin to ask and answer questions about colleges and relate those answers to themselves, they are prepared to begin the college selection process. Students discover themselves— that is, they identify personal values, aptitudes, and needs—and they learn how to conduct a college search through a multistep process. Ideally, this process should begin by seventh grade, with specific events occurring each subsequent year. However, the process can be shortened as it is in this book. Included at the end of this chapter is a timeline to help your child throughout the college planning process.

PARENTS PROVIDING SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGEMENT

College planning and ultimately the transition to college are life-changing events for most teens, but keep in mind that all teens will have different reactions to the process. Some start making lists of potential colleges before ninth grade, while others have not yet made plans for college at the start of 12th grade. One type of student may post rejection letters on a bedroom bulletin board, another may let the process affect her self-esteem, and a third student may take it in stride. Selecting a college is one of the first adult choices in life. There are no perfect solutions or clear-cut alternatives. It's an event that signals a transition to adulthood. Parents are often confused about how much guidance they can and should provide. You may teeter between withdrawal and taking over the process, not knowing how to strike a balance. You have an important role—becoming an informed consumer, and setting clear and realistic goals that reduce the pressure and keep things in perspective. You should support, encourage, and even empathize with your teenager, remembering your own experiences as a young adult. When you take time to learn about college planning and how it differs from your experience or that of someone you know, you can truly make a positive difference. As one student told her parents, "The best thing you did was to laugh at my jokes." She was talking about having perspective, or college planning without any angst.

Some things for parents to keep in mind include the following:

• » Getting into a brand-name school does not improve one's life. Teaching and learning are often better in schools you've never heard of.
• » Be a "guide on the side," gently encouraging your child, rather than an all-knowing "sage on the stage." Be ready and able to demonstrate an understanding of the p...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Half Title
• Title Page
• Copyright Page
• Dedication
• Table of Contents
• ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
• CHAPTER 1: College Planning
• CHAPTER 2: Planning for Gifted Students: What Makes Them Different?
• CHAPTER 3: The College Search: A Matter of Matching
• CHAPTER 4: Learning About Colleges: What Do They Have That I Want?
• CHAPTER 5: The Application Process: What Do I Have That They Want?
• COLLEGE PLANNING GLOSSARY AND GLOSSARY OF FINANCIAL TERMS
• REFERENCES
• APPENDICES:
• ABOUT THE AUTHOR