chapter twenty-one
Ethical Elicitation
Trust is the essence of leadership.
āColin Powell
Elicitation is one of the skills from the intelligence community that works very well in business conversation. According to the FBI, elicitation is a technique used to discreetly gather information. It is a conversation with a specific purpose: to collect information that is not readily available and do so without raising suspicion that specific facts are being sought.
Elicitation is the strategic use of conversation to extract information from people without giving them the feeling they are being interrogated. Elicitation can occur anywhereāat social gatherings, at conferences, over the phone, on the street, on the Internet, or in someoneās home. The use of elicitation techniques encourages people to share. I have noticed that radio and TV hosts use elicitation skills on talk shows.
I learned about elicitation from John Nolan of the intelligence world.6 Rather than asking questions, elicitation is a conversation that flows and encourages people to voluntarily tell you things without you having to ask. Overall you want to minimize the threat to the other personās ego when interviewing him or her, and elicitation techniques do just that.
In Win/Loss analysis, I tend to use a combination of direct questions and elicitation techniques. You only have a set amount of time for each interview, and people expect you to ask questions. Adding a conversational twist encourages sharing.
How and Why Elicitation Techniques Work
In my elicitation training from John Nolan I learned that people remember questions better than they remember conversation. If youāre conducting an interview where you donāt want people to remember what they have shared with you, elicitation is particularly useful. For example, pure elicitation is often used when you would rather people forget who you are when you cold-call for information or collect information at a trade show.
However, in Win/Loss interviews this is not the case. You want people to remember you and what they tell you, so ask direct questions. If you do not record interviews, you might need to reconnect with them after the initial interview if you missed something. You can use elicitation techniques in your introduction, at certain points in the interview, and at the conclusion.
Eight Human Tendencies that Support Elicitation Techniques
Elicitation at its core recognizes certain human tendencies that promote sharing.
ā¢ Recognition
ā¢ Appreciation
ā¢ Curiosity
ā¢ Gossip
ā¢ Complaining
ā¢ Correction
ā¢ Self-Effacement
ā¢ Over-Talking When Emotional
Recognition
From switchboard attendants to CEOs, people respond when you recognize something positive about them. They like to show off their knowledge and share it with you. There arenāt enough listening ears these days, especially with all the digital connection in use out there. When you listen and encourage people to share more about something theyāre proud of, they will talk.
In Win/Loss, it can be something as simple as, āSince youāre the market leader, we are very interested in improving our business relationship with you. No one builds a better software program for Sales.ā This could be worked into your introduction in a Win/Loss interview.
Appreciation
Showing appreciation is related to recognition, and everyone responds to this. Show appreciation for the personās profession or role in decision- making during a Win/Loss interview.
An example of this is: āYou must be so busy as the companyās CIO. They were lucky to have someone so senior to have guided the decision to go with ACME Corporation.ā
Curiosity
People just canāt help themselves. We are all curious. If you can arouse curiosity during a Win/Loss interview, the conversation simply flows.
From switchboard attendants to CEOs, people respond when you recognize something positive about them.
An example of this is: āYou just canāt believe what we hear from customers around the feature that you just mentioned. Some customers say it is key to the sale, while others donāt value it at all.ā Most people will ask you to tell them more, and when they talk again they will often tell you more about how they use the particular feature and their preferences for change and why. Product managers love to hear about how customers value and use yours and your competitorās product features.
Gossip
People canāt resist the urge to gossip. This is related to curiosity and is the reason why most people canāt keep secrets. This is a useful technique in Win/Loss interviews. I use it often when they talk about the competition.
For example, they will say, āWe bought this product from competitor A since they had this feature, which works so much better than yours.ā Iāll answer, āSo I guess that is pivotal to how you use the product. By the way, I hear that competitor B is coming out with some new technology around that feature. I am guessing you have heard about it too.ā
The conversation just flows, and I will find out more about competitors A and B since most people canāt resist gossiping.
Complaining
Complaining is another human tendency. If you notice someone is particularly gruff, working from an angle of complaining about something is effective to entice a person to share more. Pricing almost always comes up during Win/Loss discussions. It is usually a sensitive area.
Here is an example of how this works. The customer might say, āACME Corporationās pricing is just too high. My management team doesnāt like how it keeps raising its price when the technology used in the product keeps coming down in price.ā I would answer, āThat seems unreasonable given what you just said. That must be frustrating for you.ā
By simply acknowledging the complaint, a person will often expound on that issue. Pricing is always an issue that you want to discuss in Win/Loss interviews, and I am grateful when the interviewee brings it up so I donāt have to.
Correction
People like to think they are the experts. They want to make sure that you understand what they are sharing. They arenāt sure that you have the ability to understand the knowledge they will impart since they are the expert in this field and you arenāt.
In Win/Loss interviews, this comes up most often when discussing decision-making criteria and the competition. Iāll start with, āSo you just said the most importan...