Chapter One
You Canât
Run Away
(Ruth 1)
(In which a family makes a bad decision and
exchanges one famine for three funerals)
The efforts we make to escape from our destiny only serve to lead us into it.â
The American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote that in his book The Conduct of Life, and itâs just as true today as when the book was published back in 1860. Because God gave us freedom of choice, we can ignore the will of God, argue with it, disobey it, even fight against it. But in the end, the will of God shall prevail, because âthe counsel of the LORD stands foreverâ (Ps. 33:11) and âHe does according to His will in the army of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earthâ (Dan. 4:35 NKJV).
The patriarch Job asked, âWho has hardened himself against Him and prospered?â (Job 9:4 NKJV). Job knew the answer and so do we: nobody. If we obey Godâs will, everything in life holds together; but if we disobey, everything starts to fall apart. Nowhere in the Bible is this truth better illustrated than in the experiences of Elimelech and his wife, Naomi.
We see in this chapter three mistakes that we must avoid as we deal with the problems and trials of life.
1. UNBELIEF: TRYING TO RUN FROM OUR PROBLEMS (1:1â5)
The time. Life was not easy in those days, for during the period of the judges, âthere was no king in Israel; every man did what was right in his own eyesâ (Judg. 17:6; and see 18:1; 19:1; 21:25). The book of Judges is the story of Israel at one of its lowest points in historyâitâs a record of division, cruelty, apostasy, civil war, and national disgrace. Spiritually, our lives resemble elements of the book of Judges, for there is no king in Israel, and there will not be until Jesus returns. Like Israel in the past, many of Godâs people today are living in unbelief and disobedience and are not enjoying the blessings of God.
It seems incredible that this beautiful love story should take place at such a calamitous period in the nationâs history, but is this not true today? Today we experience national and international perplexities, moral decay, and difficulties of every kind, and yet God loves this lost world and is seeking for a bride. In spite of alarms in the headlines and dangers on the streets, we can be sure that God still loves the world and wants to save lost sinners. When you know Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, no matter how tough the times may be, you are part of a beautiful love story.
But the book of Ruth is a harvest story as well as a love story. During this dark time in Israelâs history, God was seeking a bride and reaping a harvest. To be sure, Israel was reaping the harvest of their disobedience (Gal. 6:7); but God was producing the fruit of the Spirit in the lives of Ruth and Naomi. Today, the Lord is seeking a harvest and calls us to share in His labors (John 4:34â38). The harvest today is white and ready, but the laborers are still few (Luke 10:2).
The place. How strange that there should be a famine in Bethlehem, which means âhouse of breadâ! In the Old Testament, a famine was often an evidence of Godâs discipline because His people had sinned against Him (Lev. 26:18â20; Deut. 28:15, 23â24). During the time of the judges, Israel repeatedly turned from God and worshipped the idols of the heathen nations around them, and God had to discipline them (Judg. 2:10â19). The godly had to suffer because of the ungodly, even in Bethlehem.
The decision. When trouble comes to our lives, we can do one of three things: endure it, escape it, or enlist it. If we only endure our trials, then trials become our master, and we have a tendency to become hard and bitter. If we try to escape our trials, then we will probably miss the purposes God wants to achieve in our lives. But if we learn to enlist our trials, they will become our servants instead of our masters and work for us; and God will work all things together for our good and His glory (Rom. 8:28).
Elimelech made the wrong decision when he decided to leave home. What made this decision so wrong?
He walked by sight and not by faith. Abraham made the same mistake when he encountered a famine in the Land of Promise (Gen. 12:10ff.). Instead of waiting for God to tell him what to do next, he fled to Egypt and got into trouble. No matter how difficult our circumstances may be, the safest and best place is in the will of God. Itâs easy to say with David, âOh that I had wings like a dove! I would fly away and be at restâ (Ps. 55:6). But itâs wiser to claim the promise of Isaiah 40:31 and wait on the Lord for âwings like eaglesâ and by faith soar above the storms of life. You canât run away from your problems.
How do you walk by faith? By claiming the promises of God and obeying the Word of God, in spite of what you see, how you feel, or what may happen. It means committing yourself to the Lord and relying wholly on Him to meet the need. When we live by faith, it glorifies God, witnesses to a lost world, and builds Christian character into our lives. God has ordained that âthe righteous will live by his faithâ (Hab. 2:4; Rom. 1:17; Gal. 3:11; Heb. 10:38; 2 Cor. 5:7); and when we refuse to trust Him, we are calling God a liar and dishonoring Him.
There is a wisdom of this world that leads to folly and sorrow, and there is a wisdom from God that seems folly to the world but that leads to blessing (1 Cor. 3:18â20; James 3:13â18). âWoe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!â (Isa. 5:21 KJV).
He majored on the physical and not the spiritual. A husband and father certainly wants to provide for his wife and family, but he must not do it at the expense of losing the blessing of God. When Satan met Jesus in the wilderness, his first temptation was to suggest that Christ satisfy His hunger rather than please His Father (Matt. 4:1â4; see John 4:34). One of the Devilâs pet lies is: âYou do have to live!â But it is in God that âwe live and move and have our beingâ (Acts 17:28 NIV), and He is able to take care of us.
Davidâs witness is worth considering: âI have been young and now I am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, or his descendants begging breadâ (Ps. 37:25). As Paul faced a threatening future, he testified, âBut none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myselfâ (Acts 20:24 KJV). In times of difficulty, if we die to self and put Godâs will first (Matt. 6:33), we can be sure that He will either take us out of the trouble or bring us through.
He honored the enemy and not the Lord. By going fifty miles to the neighboring land of Moab, Elimelech and his family abandoned Godâs land and Godâs people for the land and people of the enemy. The Moabites were descendants of Lot from his incestuous union with his firstborn daughter (Gen. 19:30â38), and they were the Jewsâ enemies because of the way they had treated Israel during their pilgrim journey from Egypt to Canaan (Deut. 23:3â6; Num. 22â25). During the time of the judges, Moab had invaded Israel and ruled over the people for eighteen years (Judg. 3:12â14); so why should Elimelech turn to them for help? They were a proud people (Isa. 16:6) whom God disdained. âMoab is my washpot,â said the Lord (Ps. 60:8 KJV), a picture of a humiliated nation washing the feet of the conquering soldiers.
The consequences. The name Elimelech means âmy God is king.â But the Lord was not king in Elimelechâs life, for he left God completely out of his decisions. He made a decision out of Godâs will when he went to Moab, and this led to another bad decision when his two sons married women of Moab. Mahlon married Ruth (Ruth 4:10), and Chilion married Orpah. Jews were forbidden to marry Gentile women, especially those from Ammon and Moab (Deut. 7:1â11; 23:3â6; Neh. 13:1â3; Ezra 9:1â4). It was the Moabite women in Mosesâ day who seduced the Jewish men into immorality and idolatry, and as a result, twenty-four thousand people died (Num. 25).
Elimelech and his family had fled Judah to escape death, but the three men met death just the same. The family had planned only to âsojournâ temporarily in Moab, but they remained for ten years (Ruth 1:4). At the end of that decade of disobedience, all that remained were three lonely widows and three Jewish graves in a heathen land. Everything else was gone (v. 21). Such is the sad consequence of unbelief.
We canât run away from our problems. We canât avoid taking with us the basic cause of most of our problems, which is an unbelieving and disobedient heart. âThe majority of us begin with the bigger problems outside and forget the one inside,â wrote Oswald Chambers. âA man has to learn âthe plague of his own heartâ before his own problems can be solvedâ (The Shadow of an Agony, 76).
2. DECEPTION: TRYING TO HIDE OUR MISTAKES (1:6â18)
We need to consider the three testimonies that are in this section.
The testimony of Naomi (vv. 6â15). God visited His faithful people in Bethlehem, but not His disobedient daughter in Moab. Naomi heard the report that the famine had ended, and when she heard the good news, she decided to return home. There is always âbread enough and to spareâ when you are in the Fatherâs will (Luke 15:17 KJV). How sad it is when people only hear about Godâs blessing, but never experience it, because they are not in the place where God can bless them.
Many years ago, I was in a prayer meeting with a number of Youth for Christ leaders, among them Jacob Stam, brother of John Stam, who, with his wife, Betty, was martyred in China in 1934. We had been asking God to bless this ministry and that project, and I suppose the word âblessâ was used scores of times as we prayed. Then Jacob Stam prayed, âLord, weâve asked You to bless all these things; but, please, Lord, make us blessable.â Had Naomi been in that meeting, she would have had to confess, âLord, Iâm not blessable.â
Whenever we have disobeyed the Lord and departed from His will, we must confess our sin and return to the place of blessing. Abraham had to leave Egypt and go back to the altar he had abandoned (Gen. 13:1â4), and Jacob had to go back to Bethel (35:1). The repeated plea of the prophets to Godâs people was that they turn from their sins and return to the Lord. âLet the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; and let him return to the LORD, and he will have compassion on him and to our God, for He will abundantly pardonâ (Isa. 55:7).
Naomiâs decision was right, but her motive was wrong. She was still interested primarily in food, not in fellowship with God. You donât hear her confessing her sins to God and asking Him to forgive her. She was returning to her land but not to her Lord.
But something else was wrong in the way Naomi handled this decision: She did not want her two daughters-in-law to go with her. If it was right for Naomi to go to Bethlehem, where the true and living God was worshipped, then it was right for Orpah and Ruth to accompany her. Naomi should have said to them what Moses said to his father-in-l...