Chapter 1:
TAKE SMALL OFF THE TABLE
From Securing Baghdad to Building the American Dream
Ron Perry is the president and CEO of Perry Construction Management, a small construction management company that oversees major building projects for Fortune 500 clients including Kelloggâs, NestlĂ©, and Starbucks, as well as for the U.S. Federal Government.
As a West Point graduate and veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom, Perry was no stranger to leading people through complex and challenging missions. Then a divorce led him to leave the military and prioritize raising his children.
It was a new chapter in his life, and he needed a new career. Through a headhunting agency, he was hired to manage construction projects for a large general contractor, even though he knew almost nothing about construction.
âI still donât think I can install an interior door in my own home,â he says, âbut thatâs not what I was hired for. The work is actually about understanding people, building teams, building consensus as they work toward a common goal, making decisions, and executing.â
His education at West Point and his experiences in Iraq had amply prepared him for the work, even without a construction background. Both his employer and the clients they served were delighted with the quality and efficiency of the projects he led.
Several years later, when Perry started his own, initially solo consultancy, the same abilities helped him convince his clients they could trust his small company with their big-budget construction projects.
Perry never pretended his new company was big. He simply took any concerns about being small off the table.
Theyâre Not Worried Youâre Too Small, Theyâre Concerned You Arenât Reliable
As I described in the preface about my own first big opportunity, Mellow Mushroom saw early on that my startup agency had great ideas for their brand, no matter our small size. Similarly, Perry speaks eloquently to his clients, sharing his big ideas for managing complex projects, building consensus among stakeholders, and assuring quality and accountability.
For Perry and for myself, convincing clients that we know what weâre talking about is easy. No elaborate theatrics to make ourselves look bigger are required, because we do know what weâre talking about. Simply sharing our thinking puts any worries about that to rest.
Whatâs harder when youâre small is convincing big clients you can execute on your excellent ideas. They want to know if you can do the job. Theyâre concerned you might not be reliable.
Sure, you may be brimming with confidence that you can deliver your enchanting dream into the bright, waking world. But consider the decision from the clientâs perspective: Youâre asking them to trust you with a large budget âoften millions of dollars in Perryâs case, usually hundreds of thousands in mineâto create, improve, or manage something thatâs critical to their companyâs stability, growth, and success.
Meanwhile, with large clients, youâre almost never personally dealing with the founder or CEO, and, even if you are, theyâre still answering to a board of directors or other stakeholders. Your point of contact is held accountable for the consequences of the decisions they make, the resources they spend, and the people they trust. Their own careers may rise or fall based on the success of your project.
In the movies, underdogs like you may win big contracts because someone at the company likes your style or has a good feeling about you. But in the real world, decision makers know that their âgut feelingâ would be a poor justification should your project go south. Theyâll need to show they did their due diligence.
If they like your ideas, they want you to succeed. But as responsible leaders, they also need to be convinced you wonât fail.
Show Them They Can Count on You
Hereâs whatâs not detailed in my triumphant preface story: After my agency won the contract with Mellow Mushroom, I still had to spend a lot of effort and energy, throughout the project engagement, reassuring everyone that we were making timely progress and would deliver on the promise of the pitch I had made.
Pretending to be bigger than we were hadnât solved the core problem. Instead of focusing on spotless baseboards and bustling desks, I should have addressed directly their worries about reliability and taken those off the table.
Thatâs what I do today, in my agency that is bigger but still small, by design. From day one, I say with pride to prospective clients that my agency is small. Then I show them why they can trust us to deliver what we promise.
So how do you do that? Here are several things I wish I had done with Mellow Mushroom, several strategies I now use with every new client.
A Playbook for Putting the Reliability Worry to Rest
Small Business Does Not Mean Small Vision
Big ideas on their own arenât enough to take small off the table, but they are where the clientâs confidence begins.
With that in mind, donât be a commodity vendor: a provider of goods and services with no investment in the clientâs strategic direction. Instead, be a partner: interested and engaged in all aspects of your mutual success.
Show them, from the start, that you understand their business, and that you have a bold and clear vision of how you can help their company grow. Articulate that vision early and let it be the lifeblood in all of your conversations: the lens through which you view the project.
For example, the major construction projects Perry Construction Management takes on always have several stakeholders on the leadership team, each with their own priorities. In the initial discovery phase, Perry meets with every stakeholder, including workers on the front lines. âWhatâs important to you,â he asks them, âand how can I best represent your interests on this project?â
Their priorities often conflict. The safety manager at a food processing plant wants grit in the floors so workers wonât slip, while the food safety manager wants a smooth floor thatâs easier to clean and sanitize.
Each person involved brings their own roleâs perspective to defining the projectâs success. In poorly managed construction projects, that can easily lead to political infighting, which causes delays, budget overruns, and a lower quality end result.
So Perry begins with gaining an understanding of each stakeholderâs priorities, then works with the full leadership team to build consensus. He rallies everyone behind an integrated vision of the projectâs successâone that each player can support.
Itâs bigger than managing a construction project per the clientâs specified requirements. Instead, Perry facilitates a clearer, more unified understanding of what everyone needs.
I do the same for my clients all the time. As Iâll discuss at length in chapter 2, a network of clinical trials sites once came to my agency wanting to improve their existing online presence. Their website attempted to serve both clinical trial sponsors and participants, but it wasnât doing either particularly well.
After carefully studying their business, we came back with a bigger idea: split the website in two. One site to serve the pharmaceutical companies and scientists. One to serve the participants. We also proposed to integrate several backend tools that would not only simplify management of the two sites, but streamline their back office operations.
We proposed a bigger budget than they had originally anticipated, but it was based on a bolder vision of how a multisite network and a well-integrated digital experience platform could help their business grow while operating more efficiently. The company appreciated our understanding of their business and the broader perspective we had brought to what started out as a straightforward website redesign. They approved the larger spend.
Thinking bigger in this way for your clients doesnât have to cost you more money, but it can certainly raise your project budget!
âWhen in Charge, Be in Chargeâ
On any project you take, there will be boundaries to your authority: decisions only your client can make, actions only they can take. But within your areas of action and authority, embrace your responsibility and lead the way.
There are many styles and modes of leadership, and Iâm not saying you must issue orders and demand unquestioning obedience. Collaborative leadership is a powerful thing.
But entrepreneurs are not followers. Meek deference and people pleasing will not teach your clients to trust you. However you lead, do so with conviction and all the confidence your expertise deserves.
âWhen in charge, be in charge,â Perry says, quoting a military aphorism. The idea behind it is that, within the bounds of the mission and their commanderâs intent, military units shouldnât wait for detailed directives. They should take initiative, make decisions, and get the job done.
When Perry starts a new project, he declares his responsibility to everyone involved, including all the company personnel on the floor. âIf you see any contractor not doing what theyâre supposed to be doing, call me,â he says. âI personally will handle it.â
Donât complain to the companyâs project manager, he tells them. Donât take it to the construction contractor. Perry Construction Management is managing this project, so bring all your concerns to me.
Not only does this declaration send a strong message about Perryâs leadership, itâs also a relief to the company project managers, who mostly dread all the complaints theyâll get during a typical construction project.
Similarly, my agencyâs clients come to us because of our expertise in tech-forward brand development and integrated digital experience platforms (DXPs). I donât tell them how they should run their restaurants, universities, performance venues, clinical trial sites, or residential communities. But I confidently take charge of developing and implementing their digital brand strategies.
Thatâs what they hire us for, so I lean into the challenge and lead the way. Thatâs what reliable agencies do.
Invest Early In The Relationship
Do you see a potential client turning into a long-term partnership? Are you particularly interested in winning a project? Do you want to take small off the table right away? Invest early in building and strengthening the relationship. Maybe right when you get the project, or even before you do.
A few examplesâŠ
My agency was courting a client who offers high-end luxury cruises around Aruba. The owner happened to mention that he would be staying in his favorite hotel in Aruba the week my proposal was due. So I arranged to have a bottle of champagne and a handwritten letter waiting for him in his hotel room when he arrived. He approved my proposal the same day he received it.
Another time, we signed a franchised client for a website project. Branding wasnât part of the initial deal, but I threw in an initial brand workshop. (I normally charge $10,000 for this service.) This added value built trust early on and encouraged the client to think bigger about what we could do. Theyâve since expanded the scope of our work well beyond their website.
One last example: We signed a famous national restaurant brand based 1,000 miles away from me. The initial project was small, and there was no practical need for any of us to meet in person. No matter. I flew with my leadership team up to their headquarters, and we all went to dinner at their restaurant to meet their C-suite. Weâve since become their agency of record. Weâre also building a strong relationship with their chief investor and hope to work with more of their brands.
These early investments build stronger client relationships, just as they do for big businesses. But thereâs an added benefit when youâre small by design. Generosity early signals that you have money to spend. Itâs a cue that says âstabilityâ while previewing for the client the pleasures of working with your company.
So show them, early, that you arenât pinching pennies. Give them some added value when appropriate. Surprise them with your commitment to the relationship. It will take small off the table!
Lead With Your Values
Just like big ideas, strong core values can have an outsized impact no matter how small you are. If those values are truly held, consistently lived, and aligned with your clientsâ, they can go a long way toward building trust and confidence in your company.
At a small by design company, you have direct and daily access to your companyâs values, an advantage no large corporation can match. Those values are not the artifacts of some committee or consultancy, perceived dimly and distantly through corporate policies and practices. Theyâre your values. You lead with them. You and your team live and breathe them every day.
âI learned in the Military Academy that thereâs one thing no one can take from you, and only you can give away,â says Perry, âand thatâs your integrity. Itâs our first core value and central to my company. There are no circumstances, no dollar amount when we would compromise our integrity on the job site.â
This isnât a sales pitch for Perry. Itâs who he is and how he would run his company no matter how his clients felt about it. That is, after all, how core values work. You donât just say them; you live them, consistently, even if the people around you donât care or...