THE AMERICAN CONSTITUTIONAL ORDER
David and Lydia Maynard were married in Vermont in 1828. They had two children. In 1850, the Maynards moved to Ohio. From there, David departed, bound, he said, for California. He promised to send his wife money for support during his absence and vowed that, once he was settled, he would return or send for the family. He never sent the promised support; nor did he return or send for his wife and children; nor did he go to California. Instead, he moved to the Oregon Territory, settled on a homestead (claiming the tract as a married man), and petitioned the territorial legislature ex parte for a divorce from Lydia. The legislature granted the divorce. Twenty-four days later, David married Catherine Brashears. After residing on the tract for the requisite four years, he petitioned the United States to have title vested in him. (In his petition, he apparently swore falsely that his first wife had died.) The petition granted, David continued to live on the tract with Catherine until he died intestate in 1873, leaving no children from the second marriage. As sometimes happens, the death of a familial relative incited competition for his worldly possessions. Lydia and the children challenged the validity of Davidâs divorce and contested Catherineâs title to the land. The first family lost at trial and again on appeal to the territorial supreme court. It lost a third time before the Supreme Court of the United States, but not before the Court pronounced the marital family to be âa relation the most important, as affecting the happiness of individuals, the first step from barbarism to incipient civilization, the purest tie of social life, and the true basis of human progress.â1
The irony of this pronouncement was apparently lost on the Court. It is tempting, therefore, to dismiss the Courtâs celebration of marriage as a cynical flourish designed to give the impression that the Court was defending an institution or value that it was actually undercutting. Thereâs much to support this temptation, but letâs not give in to it now. It might also be tempting to dismiss the Courtâs paean to family, not as cynical or hypocritical, but as a quaint anachronism, sincerely expressing nostalgic longing for a bygone era. Here, too, there might be reason for such a view. Even so, the Court has repeated encomiums to family across the centuries, in a diversity of contexts, among an array of otherwise incompatible justices.
One pivotal later decision was Griswold v. Connecticut, which addressed the constitutionality of a stateâs policy prohibiting use of certain contraceptives. In the climactic paragraph of his opinion for the court, Justice William O. Douglas located a right to contraception, not in the individual, but in the marital family:
In short, the marital relation is constitutionally protected because it is private, it is old, it is sacred, and it is noble and enduring.
Lovely as these sentiments may be, we should not take them at face value. First, if the relationship is private, it is also subject to regulation by lawâno less so now than ever in the past. Traditionally in the United States, regulation was almost exclusively the province of the states. Over time, the marital relation has become subject to legal regulationâdirect and indirectâfrom other sources, including national legislative enactments, national administrative norms, even international law. Hence, as lots of scholars have observed, law permeates the relationships that constitute marriage. Second, it is true that the marital family is old, even ancient, if not prehistoric. But, if it is old, it has also been changing. The changes have occurred since families first appeared in human experience. Some changes may have been random. Others have been adaptations to various geographic, social, political, technological, and economic conditions. Thus, if family is old, specific elements of the lives of families are variable. Third, many people do view family, especially the marital family, as a sacred relationship, of divine provenance and subject to divine ordinance. There is an alternative view: that marriage is a civil relationship, sanctioned by and governed under civil law (if not private ordering). Frequently, the sacred view does not compete with the civil or private view of marriage. In fact, governments in the United States have taken numerous steps to ensure that civil law does not collide with religious commitment. And various religions have adapted to prevailing views embodied in civil law. But conflicts between the two viewsâbetween secular and sectarian domainsâhave arisen and show little sign of abating. Fourth, there are important ways in which family does embody what we might take to be noble purposes. As Douglas put it, familial relations can promote bilateral loyalty (even multilateral, if children or extended relations are a part), a way of life, and a harmony or self-sacrifice in living that life. But there is also a darker side to family, less noble by our lights. Sometimes family is a locus for control, manipulation, even violence. Sometimes it instills values that many people abhor. Sometimes it sacrifices children to parental neglect or abuse. And sometimes particular relationships are not enduring but temporary. Thus, if families exhibit something of human beings at their best by our lights, they also reveal people at their worst.
In sum, while Douglasâs celebration may be inspiring, it is an insufficient explanation for why an important organ of the nation would attribute to a particular form of family a status entitling it to exemption from a general, authoritative policy of government. What, then, might account for the ostensible constitutional status of family, apart from the fact that the Supreme Court has proclaimed it or that family is an institution widely used and sometimes liked? Why, moreover, is it the marital family that is constitutionally significant?
The standard interpretive sources and methods of the constitutional lawyer provide only modest help for answering these questions. As weâll see, the text that calls itself the Constitution is largely silent about family.3 This did not prevent Justice John Marshall Harlan II from creatively locating a right of marital privacy in the Third and Fourth Amendments, among other sources.4 Justice Douglas in Griswold augmented Harlanâs analysis, discerning general protections in âpenumbrasâ and âemanationsâ issuing from the âspecific guarantees in the Bill of Rights.â On Douglasâs reading, the First Amendmentâs right of assembly connotes association, including intimate associations, one of which is marital family; and the Third Amendmentâs prohibition of quartering soldiers in time of peace, the Fourth Amendmentâs prohibition of unreasonable searches and seizures, and the Fifth Amendmentâs self-incrimination clause all presuppose âthe sanctity of a manâs home,â which might house not only âa manâ but a family as well.5 Text aside, weâll see that intentions of framers or âoriginal meaningsâ may have interesting things to say about family. But they are conflictual, and the evidence for any particular intention or meaning in this context can be thin. Common law also has something to offer and has the advantage of being thicker than intentions and original meanings, though it, too, may cut in different directions.6 Other possible sources include tradition,7 principles distilled from doctrine,8 structure,9 âspiritâ or purpose,10 contemporary ethos,11 norms of civilized nations,12 and natural law (or right).13
Weâll see signs of these sources and methods in this book. Itâs not my aim, however, to explore them systematically, for my purpose is not primarily doctrinal. I want instead to take a different approach to the question of constitutional statusâan approach that borrows from the family values movement. I want to focus on three general aspects of the functional relationship between family (or families) and the constitutional order. (1) How has family participated (or how might it participate) in creating, maintaining, or changing the constitutional order? (2) How has the order tried (or how might it try) to shape or use family? (3) How effective has law been (or can it be) in achieving either? For the purposes of this study, Iâm interested in family both as an institution and as a political, social, and legal idea. To approach the subject in this way requires moving outside the domain of conventional legal analysis. To be sure, we canât (and wonât) ignore the legal, especially in light of the third question Iâve just offered. But the constitutive relations between family and the constitutional state are not merely matters of law. They are also about basic values, human needs, social practices, and institutional design.
FOUR FRAMES
To illustrate this fact, consider four elemental conceptual framesâreligion, social evolution, power, and human psychologyâeach of which touches on the justifications Justice Douglas offered for constitutionalizing family. Religion deals in realms of sacred values and of peopleâs attempts to understanding the origin of and purposes for human existence. Through social evolution, we can see family as a basic human institution that has both endured and changed across the millennia. Through the lens of power, one can see family as a site for the exercise of control, not only between members and the outside world but also within the family itself. Through psychology, we might appreciate familyâs role in forming the human psyche and influencing the expression of human personality.
Plainly, thereâs more than one version of each of these frames. In fact, there are competing versions. To complicate further, the frames themselves are not mutually exclusive, as one or more iterations of one frame may be compatible with a version of another. For now, however, Iâll treat each frame as distinct. In doing so, I make no claim to comprehensiveness. Nor do I aim to fill in subtle details. For the present, Iâll merely sketch outlines. Weâll see, throughout the account that follows, their relevance to the constitutional status of family.
Religion
Among almost all traditions that are recognizably religious, some form of family is primal. It is primal in at least three senses: it was present either from creation or from the beginning of self-conscious human experience; it is of fundamental social importance; and it is an expression of what human beings are to be if fulfilled. To put the point more sharply, family is part of divine order. An aspect of this point appears in the Hindu account of creation, in which the original divinity became a divided self, whose gendered halves united to make a new whole self, free from fear and loneliness.
Here we have a psycho-sexual story of the beginning of the world. Divine loneliness incited duality. Duality became sexualized. Through sex, came (re-)union. And this union was the source for all humanity.
More familiar to most Americans are the two Judaic accounts of creation in Genesis. The first emphasized the sexual unity that is the basis for procreation: