There are some things every worker should know. Unfortunately, many of these thingsâlike keeping a somewhat orderly desk or turning off your ringtone during a meetingâare long forgotten after youâve gotten comfortable in your new surroundings. Hereâs a primer.
I. YOUR FIRST DAYS ON THE JOB
Now that the excitement of landing that coveted job has tempered a bit, you may be feeling some anxiety anticipating those first days. Itâs only normal. After all, youâre jumping headfirst into new surroundings, meeting all new people and facing many new challenges. Follow these tips and youâll lay the groundwork for success at your new job:
SHOW UP ON TIME. Donât think because you are new you will just blend into the woodwork and no one will notice if youâre a little tardy. Nothing says, âIâm a slacker,â like arriving late for your first days on a new job. If you can, even show your face a little early.
DRESS APPROPRIATELY. First impressions can be lasting. Just because youâre not wowing them in the interview anymore, it doesnât mean you shouldnât dress to impress. Rather than have to work twice as hard to erase the image of the rumpled or dirty shirts you wore your first week, knock âem dead with a clean, polished look. (Not to mention that many ID photos are often taken on the first day, so this will ensure a headshot youâll be proud of.)
MEET YOUR CO-WORKERS. Make an effort to remember names. Nothing is more inviting than being greeted personally. Try to learn the names of your colleagues, including support staff, and youâll make friends fast. A good trick is to repeat that personâs name when you meet him or her and associate the name with something familiar.
LISTEN. One of the best ways to learn is to listen. Consider yourself a blank slate and take note not only of information you hear in formal meetings, but also of the little nuggets shared during casual breaks or in the lunchroom.
ASK QUESTIONS. Not only does asking questions give you visibility at meetings and involve you in discussions, itâs a great way to learn and demonstrate your industry knowledge.
GET INVOLVED. Even if itâs just organizing a lunch meeting or a happy hour, head up a project to get your name out there and meet some of your co-workers.
COMMUNICATE. Communication is very important not only in your first few days, but every day. Just about every company has âunwritten rules,â so donât be afraid to ask your co-workers for advice. And make sure you keep your boss apprised of your current projects and let her know if there is a particular project on which youâd like to work. You canât expect people to read your mind.
AVOID GOSSIP. Donât get sucked into the rumor mill. Because youâre new and still relatively unknown, some colleagues may feel more comfortable venting to you. Donât respond or give unspoken credence to the barbs by laughing, nodding or displaying exaggerated facial expressions.
STAY PAST QUITTING TIME. Even though you may not have a lot of work to do yet, it couldnât hurt to stay a few minutes after the whistle blows. Donât shut down your computer at 4:59; rather stay 10 to 15 minutes after quitting time to show your commitment.
BE UPBEAT. These first days can be awkward, confusing and full of doubt. But donât let it get you down. Begin and end each day with a smile and a cheerful greeting. Your positive attitude will brighten the office.
POP QUIZ: What do hiring managers say is the biggest mistake new college grads make their first three months on the job?
A) Late to work
B) Negative attitude
C) Too much time on personal business
D) Not asking questions
ANSWER: ALL OF THE ABOVE. When asked what the biggest mistake a new grad can make on a new job, 12 percent of hiring managers said being late to work and another 12 percent said a negative attitude. Eleven percent said spending too much time on personal matters and 9 percent said not asking questions.
II. CAREER POISON
You already know how long it can take to find the right jobâyet it takes just days or weeks to lose it. There are some major deal-breakers in any workplace, whether in the boardroom or on the sales floor. Beginning on day one, here are the most important career killers to avoid.
Possessing poor people skills
A little likeability can go a long way. A study by the Harvard Business Review found that people consistently and overwhelmingly prefer to work with likeable, less-skilled co-workers than with highly competent jerks. Researchers found that if employees are disliked, itâs almost irrelevant whether theyâre good at what they do, because other workers will avoid them.
Not being a team player
No one feels comfortable around a prima donna. And organizations have ways of dealing with employees who subvert the team. Just ask former Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver Terrell Owens, who was suspended for the 2005 season after repeatedly clashing with and taking public shots at his teammates and management. Show youâre a team player by making your boss look like a star and demonstrating that youâve got the greater good of the organization at heart.
Missing deadlines
If the deadline is Wednesday, first thing Thursday wonât cut it. Organizations need people they can depend on. Missing deadlines is not only unprofessional, it can play havoc with schedules and make your boss look bad. When making commitments, itâs best to under-promise and over-deliver. Pull an all-nighter if you have to. Itâs that important.
Conducting personal business on company time
Although there are going to be times when you have to spend a little more of your workday on personal matters, the company e-mail and phone systems are meant to be used for company business. Keep personal phone calls brief and fewâand never take a call that will require a box of tissues to get through. Also, never type anything in an e-mail that you donât want read by your boss; many systems save deleted messages to a master file. And we canât tell you how many poor souls have gotten fired for hitting the âReply Allâ button and disseminating off-color jokesâor worse yetârants about their boss for all to see.
Isolating yourself
Donât isolate yourself. Develop and use relationships with others in your company and profession. Those who network effectively have an inside track on resources and information and can more quickly cut through organizational politics. Research shows effective networkers tend to serve on more successful teams, get better performance reviews, receive more promotions and be more highly compensated. No-brainer, right?
Having a casual office fling
Office romances are tricky. On a good day, they end up as a long-term commitment; on a bad day, they can make tabloid editors blush. Itâs best to keep these private because, once out in the open, there can be consequences. If you become involved with your boss, your accomplishments and promotions will be suspect; if you date a subordinate, you leave yourself open to charges of sexual harassment. And if it ends badly, youâre at risk of everyone knowing about it and witnessing the unpleasantness.
Fearing risk or failure
If you donât believe in yourself, no one else will. Have a can-do attitude and take risks. Instead of saying, âIâve never done that,â say, âIâll learn how.â Donât be afraid to fail or make mistakes. If you do mess up, admit it and move on. Above all, find the learning opportunities in every situation. Remember, over time, risk-aversion can be more hazardous to your career than error.
Having no goals
Failure doesnât come from not reaching your goal, but in not having a goal to reach. Set objectives and plan your daily activities around achieving them. Eighty percent of your effectiveness comes from 20 percent of your activities. Manage your priorities and focus on those tasks that support your goals.
Neglecting your image
Fair or not, appearance counts. People draw all kinds of conclusions from the way you present yourself. So donât come to work poorly groomed or in inappropriate attire. Be honest, use proper grammar and avoid slang and expletives. You want to project an image of competence, character and commitment.
Being indiscreet
Cubicles, hallways, elevators, bathroomsâeven commuter trainsâare not your private domain. Be careful where you hold conversations and what you say to whom. Donât tell off-color jokes, reveal company secrets, gossip about co-workers or espouse your views on race, religion or the bossâs personality. Because while there is such a thing as free speech, ...