PART I
THE RISE
CHAPTER 1
How my grandparents helped
create a kibbutz
My grandmother, Breindel, was born on June 1, 1910, in Poryck, a small town in Eastern Europe located on a lake.1 More than half of the townâs two thousand inhabitants were Jewish and the rest were Polish or Ukrainian. Jews had been present in town since at least the sixteenth century; most worked in commerce and manufacturing, and owned little shops and plants. The town had a synagogue, a Hebrew school (called Tarbut, Hebrew for âcultureâ), and a Hebrew library; it seems the Jewish residents coexisted peacefully with the non-Jewish residents. At the end of the nineteenth century, more restrictions on Jews and Jewish settlements were introduced, and by the outbreak of the First World War, Poryck was a town in decline. Poryckâs Jews found themselves in a dismal situation, suffering from pogroms and persecution.
Breindelâs father, Mordechai Brezner, was a prosperous pharmacist in Poryck, and the family was relatively wealthy. My grandmother even told us they had a pony she loved to ride. Like some other Jews in Poryck, the Brezner family was Zionist. Breindel was among the founders of her townâs branch of the Haâshomer Haâtzair movement, and she was active in the local groupâs cultural and social life. Haâshomer Haâtzair, which translates as âThe Youth Guard,â was a Socialist-Zionist Jewish movement that believed that the Jewish youth could be liberated by making aliyah.2 Members of Haâshomer Haâtzair would later settle in Palestine,3 found a number of kibbutzim, and, in 1927, form the Kibbutz Artzi Federation.
With friends from Haâshomer Haâtzair, Breindel moved to the nearby city of Lvov4 to study in hopes of becoming a Hebrew teacher. Lvov, located in what is now Ukraine, had a population of over 300,000 and was home to one of the largest Jewish communities in Poland. In 1933, when she was twenty-three years old, her studies were interrupted when her friends decided to make aliyah and continue their training in Israel. We donât know why the group decided to leave right then, rather than waiting until graduation. But the alarming rise in anti-Semitism during the 1930s in Lvov must have been a contributing factor: anti-Semitism had moved beyond social exclusion and economic discrimination to include physical assaults on Jews.
My grandmother decided not to join her friends in making aliyah. Life in Poland was quite comfortable for her, and the Zionist idea of hafrachat hamidbar (Hebrew for âmaking the desert bloomâ) in the hot and humid Middle East sounded better in theory than in practice. She was also very close to her family; as an only daughter with three older brothers, she had always been coddled by her parents and siblings. For reasons that are not entirely clear, she said goodbye to her friends, wished them good luck, and returned to her hometown and family.
The decision to not join her friends and make aliyah must have been difficult, especially since her high school sweetheart, Baruch âBuzikâ Honig decided to not stay with her and joined the rest of the group in Palestine. Buzik and some of his friends from Haâshomer Haâtzair had been training for a number of years to become agricultural workers in Palestine and to live a communal life there in a kibbutz of the type that had recently begun springing up in that region.
Buzik was more committed to making aliyah and joining a kibbutz than his girlfriend Breindel. His childhood friend Dov recalled years later that Buzik was âamong the founders of Haâshomer Haâtzair in town, and he devoted all his energy to the educational activities [of the group] and to training youths in self-fulfillment and making aliyah to Israel,â5 and that âat the gathering point he was the driving force. With his good humor, he influenced all the members, and, from the first moment, a strong tie between him and the rest of [those who would later become] the kibbutz members was formed.â6
But, like Breindel, Buzik was the youngest son. His parents âcould not accept the idea that their beloved youngest son would leave them, and they were opposed to his aliyah.â7 They did everything they could to stop him. Dov recalled that âone afternoon he escaped from home and went out of town to the gathering point of those who planned to immigrate to Palestine, but his family came and brought him back home. Buzik didnât give up his plan and after a short while escaped again, only this time he was successful.â
Buzik and his group were fascinated by the social experiment of kibbutzim. In July 1939, they decided to establish their own kibbutz, called Negba, in the northern Negev. The land belonged to the Jewish National Fund, which had bought and developed land for Jewish Settlement, and was the southernmost Jewish settlement at the time. Their effort was part of the âtower-and-stockade enterprise,â a settlement method used by Zionist settlers during the 1936â39 Arab revolt, in which dozens of kibbutzim and several moshavim were established throughout Palestine. Palestine at the time was under British mandate, and the British authorities had placed legal restrictions on the establishment of new Jewish settlements. However, Ottoman law, which was still in effect, provided a loophole: even an illegal building or settlement cannot be demolished once the roof has been completed. Hence, the Jews would build an entire settlement in the middle of the night, and by the time morning came it would be complete and couldnât be demolished. This tower-and-stockade enterprise was tolerated by British authorities as a means of countering the Arab revolt.8 Like kibbutzim, moshavim were established as cooperative agricultural communities; but unlike the kibbutz, farms in the moshav were individually rather than collectively owned.
In the summer of 1939, Buzik fulfilled his dream and became a proud founder of Kibbutz Negba. The creation of Kibbutz Negba is described in Negbaâs archives (my translation):
In terms of security, the place was very dangerous and the tower-and-stockade system addressed this problem very well. At the time this settlement point was established, we had to watch out for both the Arabs and the English who ruled the land at the time. All the buildings required were constructed and prepared at the center of the country and the operation of settlement on the land took place during the night. About 40 trucks arrived at dawn at the designated point (near the Arab villages of Beit Afa and Iraq-Suweidan), and through the hectic work of hundreds of people, the settlement was standing on the ground before 10am. The entire settlement was inside the wall, and in the middle stood a tower with a strong spotlight to overlook the area day and night. That same day, we decided on the name âNegbaâ [southward], because the tower served as a landmark for other settlements towards the south and the desert. We developed a successful agricultural farm and we made our living from vegetables, milk, wheat and fruits that our farm produced. Another source of livelihood was working at establishing military camps for the English in the region with the onset of the Second World War in Europe at the time. We tried to have a good neighborly relationship with the Arabs in the nearby villages. They were impressed by our mechanized and advanced agriculture, and tried to learn from us, and it looked like we would live in peace for a long time.
Buzik and his friends were motivated, driven, and hard-working,9 even though nobody was supervising.10 Cooperation was viewed as key. Kibbutz members were required to give the collective all their private property, including clothing and other personal items. All decisions were made collectively, from small things like what the members should wear and when they could get new shoes, all the way to what food the members would eat in the dining hall, what tasks and jobs the members would perform, and whether and what the members could study outside the kibbutz. Even the showers were communal (separate for men and women).
However, Buzikâs happiness was not complete. His love was still in the diasporaâin Poryckâand Buzik missed her greatly. To make matters worse, members of Kibbutz Negba became increasingly aware that war was approaching the borders of Poland, and they worried greatly about anti-Semitism and persecution in Europe. Shika, a childhood friend of my grandparents and a fellow settler of Kibbutz Negba, travelled to Europe on a mission on behalf of the kibbutz to bring members of their shtetl (Yiddish for a small town with large Jewish population in prewar Eastern Europe) back to Palestine. One day early in 1939, Shika knocked on the door of the Brezner family. Buzik had asked him to do everything he possibly could to bring Breindel to Negba.
In a rare moment of sharing, my grandmother later told her daughters (my mother and aunt) that her first reaction was âabsolutely not.â There was no way she was leaving her beloved family behind, and she knew they were not going to join her. Her plan had always been to take care of her parents as they got older, and she couldnât just go. At the same time, the war was getting closer to Poland, and Breindel must have already felt that making aliyah was a smart move. Whatâs more, Shika presented a pessimistic picture: he said his friends and the members of his kibbutz all agreed that joining him and making aliyah was the only way possible for Jews in Europe to survive.
In the toughest decision my grandmother ever had to make, she decided to join ShikaâPalestineâs borders at the time were almost closed to aliyahâand the two decided to take no risks. They fictitiously married so Breindel could enter Palestine without trouble.
When Shika came to take my grandmother to Palestine, did the Brezner family suspect a German invasion was imminent? Did they have any inkling that later that year, Poland would be partitioned between Germany and the Soviets? Did they suspect that Jews would no longer be allowed to leave and that many of them would become refugees or would die? Unfortunately, we donât know the answers to these questions. We suspect that the Brezner family must have felt increasingly pressured and unwelcome in Poland. During the 1930s, with bad economic conditions in Poland, the Polish government increasingly promoted anti-Semitic policies that restricted Jews in the labor market and encouraged them to leave the country. At the same time, however, Jewish cultural and political activities thrived, so it hard to know how they weighed the good against the bad.
Did my grandmother try to convince her parents and brothers to join her to Palestine? Did she get their blessings or did she leave against their will? Did she know she would never see them again? Did she feel guilty for leaving her family behind? My family members asked ourselves t...