CHAPTER 1
Why Become a Virtual Assistant?
Virtual Assistants log on at their home-based desks for a variety of reasons. Some have obligations or limitations or preferences that keep them at home (children, elderly parents, lack of transportation, physical mobility issues), others are living in areas where meaningful career opportunities are few (rural areas, developing countries), some do so out of environmental convictions, and still others find that being an âemployeeâ simply doesnât fit.
2-Second Spotlight
âWhat I Love About Being a VAâ Name: | Mary Hern |
Business: | Kinetic Integration, Inc. |
URL: | Mary has been so busy with clients that she hasnât needed a Website. |
Personal: | Mary is the mother of two and an Air Force spouse living in Norfolk, Virginia. |
Several years ago when my husband and I decided to start a family, we agreed that I would stop working and stay at home to raise the children. When my daughter turned 1, however, I began to feel like something was missing. Having worked since I was 15, I had grown used to the social interplay of a workplace, the motivation to succeed and even the need for problem-solving skills under pressure. Being at home without the demand for many of those skills, I knew something had to give.
I decided to take a more professional approach to my household. I organized closets and drawers, moved the furniture until the carpet wore thin, and developed to-do lists that brought tears to my husbandâs eyes. Still, I needed more. My husband asked me to put the house on a budget and find ways to cut costs. Clipping coupons and watching for sales became an obsession. I had become a âStepford wifeâ and lost parts of myself that I truly missed.
Being a VA has given me the best of both worlds. Iâm still at home raising my children and having a wonderful timeâI still love waking up in the morning to decisions like, âWhere would the tent made of blankets work best? Over the table or the couch?ââbut Iâm also part of something that feeds my need to interact with adults and contribute to professional society. Iâm able to enjoy the details and simple triumphs of my day because when my children are tucked in bed at night, I can slip into my comfy pajamas and become the corporate woman I always dreamed of being.
As a VA, I manage projects, make decisions, and solve problems with the click of a mouse. Yet if my children need me, Iâm there. If my family wants to go do something, we go. Our lives donât revolve around my work schedule, but the results of my work are tangible. Iâm happier, more fulfilled and I have something to bring to the table along with a home-cooked meal. This is living.
Whatever the reason, once the decision is made, a successful VA enjoys some great perks: control over her life, doing only the work she loves, working only with the clients she chooses, flexibility in the work schedule for family, friends, and personal interests, and no commute! (In gridlocked places such as northern Virginia, where co-author Mike lives and where the commutes can reach four or more hours a day, this can be a decisive consideration.) But in our opinion, of all the reasons weâve heard, the most powerful for becoming a VA is for the individualâs personal and professional freedom and growth.
Freedom: The Personal Side
Why is it that when we see people with a true entrepreneurial spirit, an authentic sense of independence, there often seems to be a glow about them that no amount of fatigue or stress can overcome? The aura of some core joy seems to come shining through, no matter how heavy the responsibility that sits on their shoulders. (And some people, such as entrepreneurs with severe disabilities, are overcoming more challenges than most of us will ever know. Yet that core happiness still emerges, still prevails!)
Strange as it might sound, could it be that the air of enthusiasm and eagerness we see in them has been liberated by the day-to-day circumstances of their lives, their own ânine-to-fiveâ routine?
In that single phrase is the key, we think, to the puzzle, because entrepreneurs have no routine. For an entrepreneur, the âroutineâ that other people submit to, and endure, and re-enact day after dayâand grow so bored with and often literally sick ofâis play, creativity, and, even better, self-indulgence.
Because getting up in the morning to do something you like is self-indulgent. It can be likened to eating your favorite dessert, or playing your favorite sport, or embracing those you love. After all, this is your company, your businessâa part of yourselfâand running it and shepherding it and parenting it into the future is a tonic, a stimulant, and a provocation to do better and exceed your limitsâevery day.
This is the deeply personal side of entrepreneurial freedom, the kind that liberates the spirit, too, and beckons the whole self to be free. (Though beyond the scope of this book, we believe there is most certainly a spiritual aspect to entrepreneurship, and that âgood work done wellâ can definitely help unfetter the spirit. Just ask any artist or craftsperson. To do work that has no spiritual component, in our view, is ultimately empty and can quite soon end up âemptyingâ the person doing the work!)
Freedom: The Professional Side
Most of us have âworked for someone elseâ at some point in our lives, and thereâs certainly nothing wrong with having a job, if thatâs what you really want or need and if you understand what youâre giving up in exchange. Jobs can be a blessing for people who like guidance and structure, for people who prefer a fixed routine or working in group environments, and for people who like supervision. (Employment, of course, used to be a source of security, tooâthe comforting âpensionsâ of yesteryearâbut that has become a rather quaint concept, these days.)
For the entrepreneurially minded, however, âemploymentâ can be a curse, a brake, an intensely frustrating and horizon-limiting experience. (Co-author Chris, for example, used to work as a business manager in a small office. Often, when she suggested new procedures to make the business run more effectively, sheâd be met with, âItâs working fine. Weâve been doing it this way for years!â Change is a fearful experience for those who are âemployeesâ at heart, and the entrepreneur may often find herself stymied as she struggles to improve the organization. Nor will it help if the suggestions are being made by a woman, if the company is dominated by âold-schoolâ men.)
The self-employed, howeverâthe independent-minded, the âchart-my-own-courseâ and âdonât-fence-me-inâ typesâare free to be as creative and innovative as they like, free to set their own schedules and workloads, and free to say ânoâ when they feel like it or to say âyesâ and not ask anyoneâs âpermissionâ when they want to take a break, a âmental health day,â or a much-needed vacation.
2-Second Spotlight
âVAs Paint Masterpieces, Tooâ Name: | Evelyne Matti |
Business: | e-Matti Virtual Business Support Services |
URL: | www.e-matti.com.au |
Personal: | Based in Sydney, Australia, Evelyne is married to a hotelier and is the proud mother of two. |
My husband and my kids complain that I spend too much time on the computerâbut I love what I do! I continually look for ways to improve my skills; thatâs the fun part. Some people paint as a hobby. I create beautiful masterpieces too, and it happens to be part of my work! Who else can combine hobby and work and make money at it?
VAs can enjoy and flourish in this freedom, too, choosing the clients they prefer (and firing the bad ones) and deciding where and when to work, as well as how much they want to make while doing so. (A VAâs income, where demand is a constant, is determined directly by the quantity and quality of his or her work and the efforts she puts into marketing.)
Moreover, a VA who has a good skill set and makes a solid marketing effort can often earn more in her home office than she can as an employee. (Indeed, one of the VAs we trained recently billed $10,000 in one month.) In fact, according to The Wall Street Journal, self-employed people who provide services are usually paid at least 20 percent to 40 percent more per hour than employees who perform the same work.
As a self-employed person (in the United States) youâll also be eligible for many tax benefits that employees canât get. For example, instead of having federal and state taxes withheld from their paychecks, self-employed people normally pay estimated taxes directly to the IRS four times a year. This lets you hold on to your hard-earned money longer without having to turn it over to the taxman. Even more important, you may also be able to claim many business-related tax deductions that are available to people with home-based offices. (Be sure to check with your accountant or tax advisor to get the maximum benefits from your individual circumstances and the tax laws that apply in your location.)
Because of these tax benefits, the self-employed often pay less tax than employees who earn similar incomes.
Growth: The Personal Side
It isnât enough to be free. Freedom without growth is as wasted as a fertile garden with no plants. Having your own business and working from homeâthe âfreeâ side of the equationâset the stage for your personal growth. Facing and overcoming the day-to-day challenges of running a company, however small your initial business might be, fosters tremendous personal growth in the VA. Little by little, as the independent decisions and the learning and the progress of the business accumulate, the entrepreneur begins to see herself in a totally different lightâa brighter, warmer, and much more positive perspective. (And her family and friends do, too!)
For those who enjoy working with entrepreneurs, as we do, witnessing this personal growth can be one of the most gratifying parts of the âjob.â At the risk of sounding corny, itâs a bit like seeing a butterfly coming out of its chrysalis or a young deer bounding across a meadow in the spring. In our experience there is no substitute for the sheer excitement of seeing a new entrepreneur take wing.
We mentor and train VAs from around the world and given them many of the tools and the encouragement they need to start finding their footing. But we do nothing âforâ them, nothing that would substitute for their own initiative and determination and courage. (Indeed, we feel that this would be a disservice to them and would delay the day when they act âalone,â and by doing so, truly grow.)
This is why it gives us such intense satisfaction to see a VA âtake flightâ and to receive an e-mail from someone we have never metâand perhaps never willâproclaiming in capital letters the joy she felt on discovering that she could do what she had hoped she could, achieve what she had dreamt of achieving, and telling us proudly how her self-esteem mounted as she overcame the challenges she had faced along the way.
Much has been spoken of âempowermentâ over the years, be it the empowerment of minorities or women, of people with disabilities, or of other groups. And this is as it should be: Without power, we have no control over our lives, no self-determination. But one of the most empowering experiences open to anyone is to take the tiller of her own company and run it as she sees fit, to rely principally on herself for the outcome of her efforts, and to set her course, navigate...