TV Talk and Childrenâs Identities
Liesbeth de Block
Chapter objectives
This chapter focuses on the importance of talk about television in facilitating childrenâs social relationships, especially across linguistic and cultural boundaries; in helping children to build their own identities and memories; and in helping social groups to bond together. The chapter also looks specifically at the role of talk about TV news programmes in the lives of migrant children and their families.
I first became interested in the role of media in childrenâs social negotiations and relationships when I was working as a language support teacher with refugee children in a London primary school. I began to notice how often references to TV dominated the childrenâs social interactions, games and jokes. My particular interest was in the ways in which âTV talkâ appeared to facilitate cross-cultural and cross-language relationships (de Block, 2002; de Block and Buckingham, 2007). Of course, other communication technologies are now increasing features of these playful interactions, but TV was dominant at the time of the research I will be discussing, and it remains childrenâs favourite medium, so it will be my main reference point (Livingstone and Bovill, 2001).
Teaching and then becoming a researcher in the same school gave me unusual and privileged opportunities to observe a variety of children in different contexts, focusing on two groups in particular, one of boys (aged 10/11) and one of girls (8/9).1 I spent 18 months âhanging outâ and observing in the playground; going out with small groups in the local neighbourhood and across London; visiting homes; working with children in the classrooms; and making videos. In this way, I was able to cross-reference and verify my conclusions and compare them with other research in related areas of childhood and media studies (Gillespie, 1995).
How does talk about television relate to questions of identity and belonging? Why is it important to study an area of social interaction that appears to be ephemeral and essentially transient? What is relevant in this for schools and teaching? In this chapter, I will offer a glimpse of some of the dynamics of TV talk so that you can build your own picture of how the children in your school use media, and consider what implications this might have for teaching, learning and school practice.
What is TV talk?
TV talk can take many different forms: chat, storytelling, a single word or phrase; non-verbal interaction in the form of games, gestures, role play; knowledge about producers and channels, the latest developments in technology and production methods, upcoming shows, etc. TV talk is an activity that has its own social rules, creating within the group a shared remembering, a bedrock on which friendships are formed and identities are played with. TV talk is collaborative, drawing on the groupâs shared experience; it evokes emotions, appeals to the affective and the humorous, and prompts that exploration of identity and belonging that is essential to the process of growing up and belonging to a particular community.
Memory and shared meanings
Both within the family and with friends in and out of school, television plays a significant role in building autobiographical memories or histories. Television can help to locate children in time and place in almost the same way that family photos or stories do (Spence and Holland, 1991). Often the children referred to programmes they used to watch when they were younger. This acted to reinforce a shared history. In the boysâ group, the names of programmes such as Powerpuff Girls and Rug Rats were called out and ridiculed, even though they themselves had in fact often watched them.2 The girls expressed almost hysterical excitement when they remembered programmes such as The Tweenies or Rosie and Jim. These shows performed the same function as their playground games â that of building a group memory they could draw on in times of tension. Many of the games had been played so often, and many of the television stories told so many times, that they formed a resource the children could draw on for security â to overcome arguments or simply to âbelongâ.
Some of the refugee and migrant children mentioned programmes they used to watch before they came to this country. Rhaxma, originally from Somalia, still enjoyed watching an Italian programme she had seen as a toddler when living in Italy, even though she no longer understood Italian. It offered her a personal historical reference point. She had no photos from that time but television kept the memory alive. Several children from very different origins drew on the global popularity of The Simpsons, which had become a point of continuity in their lives. For example, the Somali children had watched it in Somalia, in Kenyan refugee camps, in transition, and now in their new country of settlement.
In fact, The Simpsons, closely followed by Rug Rats, was omnipresent in all the different forms of TV talk. These two shows provided wordplay, jokes, dialogue, verbal mimicry and endless storylines to be learned and retold in detail. The children could act out some scenes and characters without the need for words. They related to familiar everyday scenes and used them for reference and comparison with their own family lives. Above all, the programmes were funny and therefore adaptable to a range of purposes and situations.
Group dynamics
TV talk has several different starting points. A child will name a programme, or an incident or personality from TV, and call it out to see if it will be taken up by the others â a kind of âauctioneeringâ. It was noticeable how often new children or those on the edges of the friendship groups would do this. They would offer a selection of programmes for the group and then have to either suffer rejection or be accepted into the subsequent group chat. It was a tense process that I witnessed time and again. Set phrases were often used: âDid you see the one where âŠ?â (a trope Friends also uses, titling episodes âThe one with âŠâ).
But there were also openers occasioned by an external prompt provoking a memory that started the ball rolling. One girl made a link, then taken up by others, between a tuna sandwich and an incident in Kenan and Kel. Similarly, when for some reason I got annoyed with the boysâ group, they all spontaneously started to hold their breath because it had sparked a group memory of an incident in another programme.
Yet on several outings with the boysâ group, I got the impression that this was not entirely random: the children were actively looking for prompts. There were some well-known local characters and places in the area where they lived that they used as part of their common knowledge on home turf. Beyond this, on unfamiliar territory, they would seek out and try to anticipate the prompts that cemented them as a group. On one outing, walking along Londonâs South Bank, the boysâ group lit on a busker playing the clarinet. One of them, Jima, had been trying to get back into the group after a rejected film choice. Now he seized the opportunity to lead the talk onto a secure knowledge base. He began to retell an incident in The Simpsons that featured a saxophone player. It took him several attempts but with the help of the concrete reference (despite this being the wrong instrument), he succeeded.
Humour and play
Once a story was established within the group as one of their stories, then a single word, movement or phrase was enough to provoke a response. So the longer story got honed down to just its punch line, or a wordplay or a gesture. Understanding this key word or action established group membership.
On some occasions, misunderstandings were incorporated into the talk and became established, unwittingly adding a new layer of humour and subversion:
Jima: | Hank gets cussed by this man. He goes to him, âItâs been so long since your motherâs bath that she smells of cocaine gas.â |
Here, Jima mistook the word âpropaneâ for âcocaineâ in an episode of King of the Hill â probably partly because he did not know the word propane. But it fitted into his understanding of the form and, in fact, the context of his life in Kingâs Cross, London, where drug dealing and use was clearly visible on an everyday basis and the children knew all about it. Jima saw âcocaineâ as subversive and therefore worth a joke with his friends. It fitted into the sense of the joke, so he got away with it. The others responded appropriately and it was never clear whether they got both the intended joke and the unintended joke, or only the former.
Music â singing and dancing
Singing and dancing form a large part of TV talk. Every playtime, you could see children singing in groups; the new children learning from the well-established children, the younger learning from the older. Mention of different programmes inevitably prompted the singing of the theme songs by both boys and girls. For the girlsâ group, when I first started working with them, the theme of the Powerpuff Girls was their song. Its words held a special meaning for them.
The Powerpuff Girls
Fighting crime, trying to save the world
Here they come just in time, the Powerpuff Girls
Powerpuff!
The Powerpuff Girls theme © 1998â2010, Cartoon Network: A Time Warner Company
At first, they would play out this girl power in the playground with great excitement but as time went on, only Rhaxma held on to the song and the programme. The others moved as the top ten moved, but they would return to the theme of girl power in various ways in their discussions and, through that, return to the theme song and the programme. It became a joke that Rhaxma still held to it so firmly and they would sometimes indulge her.
Knowing the words of songs was very important. Those who knew them well gained extra status in the group. One boy, who had been a real outsider for much of his school life and the butt of fairly recent bullying, suddenly flowered in the last term by becoming a music and dance specialist. At the school-leaving party, he was the centre of attention, with children watching and copying his dance moves; from this he gained significant status.
Both the girlsâ and the boysâ groups used songs and music to create a sense of togetherness. When there was friction in the group, it was often a song, started by one of them with the others joining in, that would smooth the waters. It calmed the group and, while it lasted, created a very cohesive atmosphere.
Fear, emotion and the news
Of course, TV talk also touches on pain, fear and trauma. Soaps, for example, are absorbing for children because they offer a view into an adult world (Buckingham, 1987), touching their own fears, and offering ways of considering family and relationship issues which are important for them. Yet while the soapsâ formulaic construction makes them safe, for them to perform the functions of real life it is essential to pretend they are not constructed. Buckingham (1996) stresses the emotional resonance that makes soaps popular across cultures (Ang, 1985; Miller, 1992) and applies it to the ways in which soaps offer the opportunity for public displays of emotion or, for children, an arena for trying out emotions publicly.
Soap-related discussions involve issues of modality and ârealityâ, but news programmes have even more direct meanings and generate different kinds of fears. News is generally considered to be an adult genre, but it is also increasingly assumed to be relevant to childrenâs learning for the purposes of citizenship and inclusion: an assumption which tends to disregard, or avoid, its affective aspects. Children are thus offered contradictory perspectives: an adult agenda which sees news as important and necessary, and a child protection agenda in which it is boring or upsetting. What do these perspectives add up to? The fact is that children do watch some news items, even if they do not choose to, as news broadcasts are often on when they are around. This raises two issues: firstly, how children react to and are affected by news; secondly, within the discourse of citizenship and political inclusion, the extent to which children consider news to be important for their own education and knowledge about the world.
Being familiar with the news can be seen as a sign of growing up, dealing with adult issues and entering the public sphere; emotional difficulties are part and parcel of this process. Local news, in particular, directly affects childrenâs sense of safety and, especially for girls, restricts their geographical movements. But for children who see conflict and trauma not as faraway events but as part of their everyday realities, watching the news becomes a different experience (de Block, 2008). You see on the screen what ...